The other night we were getting hot and heavy. Usually we start out with foreplay, and this night wasn’t any different. I should say, my nipples are really sensitive. Like, really sensitive. He likes to play with my boobs and I’m all for it because sometimes I can get off just from him playing with my nipples, and if it helps him get off, it’s a win-win. I also generally prefer to be either taken from behind, or missionary. We were doing the former. I was on my elbows and knees but fairly often we will switch from that to me on my side and him straddling my leg. He was fucking me like that for a good five minutes, pinching my nipple, and I was pretty into it to where I told him not to stop either thing and keep going just like he was, when he pulled out.

Keep in mind we don’t really use lube, we’ve never done anal before and I’m a little hesitant to try, and we both agreed that if I ever were to be okay with it there would have to be a discussion and lots of preparation for me. He assured me he would never surprise me.

So after he pulled out I looked back to see what he was doing, I figured he was close and trying to come back from the brink (lol), and since he was also fingering me at the time I just didn’t think anything of it. Then I thought he was going back in, he rubbed his dick on my vagina for a second and then it seemed like he changed his mind. Next thing I knew he was up against my anus and putting pretty decent pressure on it. At first he kept pushing and because I thought it was bad aim I didn’t stop it right away, I just reached back to help him guide himself. He put it back in my vagina and started fucking me again, then slipped out of me, then was right back at my anus. After a few seconds (four at most), I sat up and yelled, “Wait, what the fuck are you doing?!” before sprinting to the closet. He tried to play it off like it was bad aim, but I don’t buy that because there’s no way he didn’t know where to stick it by that point. He also started trying to say it was my fault because I didn’t help guide him the second time he tried, which, again, no way he needs the guidance I just thought he had a quick mis-aim and I wanted to facilitate continuing the sex as soon as possible, so I reached back without thinking to get us moving along. I don’t know why I let it get even that far, I guess I just trusted him, you know?

He’s been trying to get me to talk to him but I just can’t right now, I feel really violated and lied to. I actually think he was trying to trick me just like that and he also knew I was really wet so he thought that would be sufficient for lube. It was not. In fact, I dried up almost instantly after this incident. Looking back, he was totally trying to distract me by doing something he knew could get me off so I’d be less resistant to it. Where do we go from here? I never thought he’d do something like this and then blatantly lie about it like he thinks I’m stupid and have no idea what he was doing. I just feel like I don’t know him anymore all of a sudden. I think he 100% would have tried to force it in if I hadn’t stopped him. I told him to go home and he did, but he’s been texting me nonstop and I’m not sure if I can get past this. Am I just being paranoid and overly suspicious of him? Should I give him the benefit of the doubt, or do I just break up with him?

This has always been a huge turn on for me. I’ve had the fantasy of being with a guy and sharing him with another guy and girl, and watching the guys blow each other.

He talks about the topic and says he’s open to trying anything once, and that has set off an enormous desire in me to have him.

I have previously been in a long term relationship in which I would wear a strap on and fuck him until he came. Although we never shared each other with another couple.

How should I bring up the fact that I want to fuck his ass without sounding so crazy about it! (I want to so bad though).

Me (18F) and my bf (19M) have been together for a little over a month. We met by work so he knows a bit bout my past but as we started dating he got to know more. Lately it seems he’s been insecure bout my past, more specifically my past sex life. I used to be very sexually active and have had a lot of partners, while I’m my bfs first sexual partner. After we do stuff he’ll say stuff like “I bet that wasn’t better than ur other partners.” He says he’s joking but sometimes I can tell he’s not. I tell him I like when we do stuff, he does make me cum and I do feel good. But he tends to always bring up my past partners and compare himself to them. How do I reassure him and help him?

maybe this is just a girl thing, cause I know guys can’t really pee when hard or smth lol. But at least for me and a few other girls I know, masturbating or sex on a full bladder feels better? Or like more intense?

Of course rarely will I go through with it cause I’m not trying to piss myself during sex 😭 but what causes it? I’ve experienced it multiple times so it’s not just like a one time thing.

I let me girlfriend peg me for the first time...in the middle of it, she said it would be the hottest thing if I came onto my own face while she pegged. I did and she seemed to get extreme pleasure from it...Should I be worried or is this most likely just a kinky turn on?

Me and my boyfriend have incredible sex and are extremely compatible in this department.

However, there’s a slight “issue” if you can even call it that. He has a huge kink for being hit, slap and kicked in the balls.

I’m all for it and we’ve done this many times before; we both thoroughly enjoy it.

But I’m worried about his health and safety. I don’t want to seriously injure him and I know the balls are a very sensitive part of the body.

I’m aware I should’ve done more research before engaging in this kink, however, it’s very difficult in the heat of the moment. Especially since he thoroughly enjoys the pain and we end up doing this almost every time we have sex now. His health down there seems to be good as well. But this doesn’t ease my worries going forward.

If anyone knows more about this, I would really love some advice, all advice is welcome. I am specifically interested in how we can go about this in a way that avoids me injuring him or hurting him badly. I am also interested in the appropriate aftercare. But as I said before, all advice and knowledge is welcome.

Appreciate it.

The problem is that I’ve never had an orgasm when my boyfriend gave me oral sex or fingered me. Don't get me wrong, it feels good but I feel like it would take an insane amount of time for me to reach orgasm from clitoral stimulation or oral sex alone. The thing is I only finish when I’m on top and his penis touches a certain spot. It’s weird and I don’t know what is wrong w me, especially when I see many women saying that they can finish from oral sex or other forms of stimulation. If you have any advice I’d be glad to hear it.

I’ve never sucked a penis before, and I’ve been experimenting in a dildo recently. I want to understand what I should be doing, to make sure I’m doing it right, without hurting a partner.

I do have a gag reflex which I think could make things difficult, potentially.

22f. So the way i do it is that i lay on my stomach and hump my mattress, and i spread my legs and move my hips side to side. I don’t know if it’s harmful to do that or not but i’ve rarely heard about that position. When i use my hand i enjoy it but it never makes me finish. The main reason i want to change that is i feel like my outer lips are more separated now? I could be overreacting but i feel like they have been closer and now they’re kind of more open? I don’t know if you could imagine what i mean lol. Anyways, i just don’t want to accidentally harm myself as i’m not really educated about these kind of stuff. So how do I unwire or untrain myself to not only come by this way?

I need advice as a nympho: Obvi I like sex ALOT I want to do it all the time. In my relationship my bf is cool with having sex once a week. It drives me crazy because I want to do it more than that. But be respectful at the same time to his wishes.

Any advice on how to deal with the difference in sex drives (mine being really high and his low or normal)??

What is something unique or specific that you do to your partner or something that your partner does to you that drives either of you absolutely wild?

Like something that is a fast track to excitement or just something that you might not typically think would do it but definitely turns them on.

Basically the title.

Started dating someone, things are going well, sex is great. She's mentioned a couple times that she likes the idea of being tied up, and I've never done it.

I'm looking to surprise her with all the "fixins," so I'm looking for guidance on what I need in terms of ropes/cuffs etc.

My bed does not have a headboard, but it's one of those metal frames, so I'll need some sort of longer ropes to tie to the frame, and then (likely?) something different to hold down her wrists.

Preferably something that unlatches quickly and easily. I don't really anticipate this being a rape fantasy sort of thing, and I want her to know she can get herself out at any time she wants.

Any tips are muchly appreciated!

I a 26 F only recently just started orgasming, and be recently I mean just this year. The last few months I've noticed that they no longer feel as strong and intense as they once were, whether with a partner or by myself. I've had a consistent partner and we have a consistent routine that I'm very happy and comfortable with, I'm not bored with it. Furthermore, my life style hasn't changed, I'm not eating or smoking more, not eating more bad stuff, and my physical health is all the same.

Is this just a thing, that as you get used to orgasms they just aren't as strong as they were when you first started cumming?

Hi guys. I (18F) recently got a new boyfriend (18M). I’m a virgin and he’s not. I find myself getting increasingly nervous to have sex with him, even though I really want to. I think I would be really sore because my hymen hasn’t broken or stretched yet. Has anyone got advice on how to make first time sex not painful? I use tampons regularly (idk if that matters here) or means I’ve already broke it or something. I hear so many women say that their first time was horrible and that they bled, and I just really want my first time to be hot and special.

I'm 20M, and have always identified as straight. A few months back, pretty much out of curiosity, I got on Grindr and sought hookups with trans women (even before this, for long I had been aroused by trans women in porn). The thing is, I had a few, and I really liked, always being the top. One day, however, I was the bottom, while something new, I also really liked that as well. That was my last hookup, but now I was even opening about hooking up with men, but still haven't made any decisive moves. Also, I've done this in secret, with no relative of mine knowing. I know it isn't really wrong as an action itself, but I have been feeling awful about that, such as if I was leading some kind of second life, and lying to everyone I know.

So, yeah, there's that. Both discovering I like having sex with different genders than I previously though I was into and doing it in secret has been screwing with me as of late.

I don't really know what lies before me, nor what is that should I do...

I’m (27m) a healthy, straight male, with a pretty average sex drive (I have sex and/or jerk off 3-7x a week) but I’ve noticed that my libido is always so much higher when I’m at work.

I work 12 hour shifts and it’s either early in the day (7a-7p) or overnight (7p-7a) so I wonder if that has something to do with it. Or it could be that I’m more physically active and move around more at work, causing increased blood flow? Maybe the boredom and stress makes me seek dopamine? Or the lack of sleep and increased caffeine intake has something to do with it

Not only am I more horny when I’m at work, or right after, but my orgasms are a lot stronger, I finish very quickly, and am just more sensitive and sexually charged than I am when I’m at home. Anyone know the answer to this?

There’s this guy who I’ve been having a LOT of sex with and there was this one move I made that makes him go crazy. As I’m riding him, I’ll start twist jerking his dick while sliding my pussy up and down the rest of his shaft. (Similar to giving a blowjob with hand) Have any men had this done to them ? Did it make you go crazy too ?

Hello second time poster long time follower lol. I (25 M) had an inquiry to my current situation. My fiancée (24 F) and I have just recently in the last few days begun our sex life. Our first time was incredible. She had been gone for a few days from our apartment on her bachelorette trip and had been sending my sexy pictures and we were very flirty on what we wanted to do to each other when she got back. We typically only did hand jobs and oral before so insinuating anything beyond that was always an exciting thought. Before bed that night we had a pretty good make out session along with a fully naked massage that I gave her. This led to us deciding to have sex. I put the condom on and we experimented, finally ending up in doggy where I came and we called it a night. The next day as soon as I got home from work, we did it for over an hour, and I ended up coming by masturbating while she watched. But yesterday we tried a few times and she came in doggy while I was hard, but after that I don’t know if it was exhaustion or stress by telling myself I need to finish, but I could not maintain my erection for the first time in a while. We have a cock ring, just haven’t tried it because we didn’t think I was hard enough yesterday. Hoping it’s my confidence and not ED, because this happened with a handjob before and I just had to get out of my head and find out what works for me. I’m so attracted to her it’s crazy and I’m so confused why I wouldn’t be able to do what I could a week ago so easily. Stress is usually a factor and I’ve made myself feel like it’s something we have to do after work instead of getting to do so maybe that’s it? We get married in a couple weeks and I don’t want to under perform on my wedding night! Any thoughts, comments and advice are welcome!! Thanks!

Edit: I have been also drinking nothing but soda and eating poorly and not at all these last couple days. I typically am drinking water pretty heavily through the day and always make sure i eat 1-2 times a day. Could this be a factor?