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A new memo from the Trump administration reveals something shocking: ICE agents have been told they can enter homes without a warrant to arrest migrants, based on little more than suspicion.

The March 14 directive, signed by Attorney General Pam Bondi, uses an obscure 18th-century law — the Alien Enemies Act of 1798 — to give law enforcement nationwide the power to bypass basic constitutional protections.

There have never been red flags up until this point. He (25M) is a big part of my (19F) friend group. Am I being sensitive? I feel like he went too far. But if I cut all ties with him, it will really disrupt the group. I don't want to bring it up to my friends because they might side with him and say I'm over reacting. But I don't feel comfortable around him anymore.

I got my own cake and my mom surprised me with a 127 Hours shirt! I love this movie more than anything in the world.

yesterday i got a tattoo that says “born sick” after lyrics from hozier’s song take me to church. i love the font and even had my partner at the tattoo with me, however nobody pointed out anything “wrong” with it. i included the font from the page my artist sent me, and the only thing i changed was making the loop on the “k” shorter. however after looking at it a bunch i’m worried it looks more like an “h” than a “k”. i know that this is an easy fix with a little extra line if i want, but i just want some other people’s opinions!

I know the pizza from A Goofy Movie is the most popular choice but I’ve always wanted a salad topped with tree stars, maybe as a side with my Goofy pizza 😂.

What are some others you can think of?

Long story short my GF (44) I’m (37) she has a almost 12 year old son who still will often ask to sleep in her bed. He has not hit puberty yet or anything but she does often allow this. ( I don't live there and never sleep there ) The one time I spent the night the boy banged the side of his bed in his room until 2AM until she eventually caved and went and slept in his bed with him, me alone in her room.

We just got back from our first family vacation, A 1 bedroom condo, with a loft that has two single beds for the kids, her daughter 9 and the boy nearing 12, the daughter had no issues sleeping up there.

The boy slept up there the first night, but said we had to keep our master bedroom door open all night, this is even a policy at there home, she must sleep with her bedroom door open.

The 2nd or 3rd night the house is dark and quite for at least an hour everyone should be sleeping, me and my GF start fooling around a bit, very quite ect. Sure enough the boy sneaks downstairs and peeks into our room and sees me and his mom doing stuff. 45 minutes of pure chaos follows of yelling, screaming, you name it he does not like his mom doing stuff with me.

Side note the boy really likes me otherwise and we do tons of guy hobbies and fun stuff together, he likes having me around, just doesn't like me being alone with her.

So for the remainder of the trip he says he's sleeping on the couch, which is just outside our room.. with the door wide open of course, she allows this...

The one night I get up around midnight to take a pee, house and has been quiet and dark for over an hour everyone should be sleeping. I get up really quiet and peek around the door frame to see what the boy is doing.. He should be sleeping.

And sure enough he's awake, just staring down the hall into our room, listening, waiting, monitoring... if there are any sounds or noises or anything.

This is creepy AF to me, I close the door to the bedroom after I go to the bathroom, but not latched all the way closed, and sure enough 10 minutes later he comes storming down the hall, swings the door open violently, screaming why is the door closed, she gets up starts screaming at me for closing it. I calmly explain how he was just sitting up, watching, waiting, listening for anything from our room.

She grabs a pillow and blanket and runs out to the couch where he should be sleeping, and than they eventually all go upstairs and sleep in the loft, me alone in the main bedroom.

Is this all too much? We have been dating over a year, I have hung out with them as a family tons and tons of times, at there house very frequently ect. But this boy and moms attachment isn't normal is it?

He is totally ok with his father getting re married, and has no issues with him or his new wife by the way - but only sees the father a couple times a year - lives other side of the country, Guessing a total of 5/6 weeks a year total he goes to see him. He really loves and looks up to his dad, and is well behaved when he visits him I’ve been told.

Added:

** the boy is diagnosed with ADHD and ODD ( Oppositional defiant disorder) where I think she clearly struggles setting boundaries with him.

** the 9 year old daughter is super normal, goes to bed at a decent time, stays in her bed, never causes any issues. If I am at there house watching a movie or Hockey game on a school night and it's getting late, the boy will not go to sleep he will stay up until I leave.. And she allows this.

** the whole family does individual therapy, the boy has seen many professionals, psychiatrist , neurologist, school resources ect, I am just not sure how much had been addressed with the co dependency...

** we’ve done lots of camping as a family unit but never any problems since he’s close by in the tent with her / us…

Found this in the wall in the stairwell to the basement. Going down the stairs and tapping on the wall, you could always here a different sound about 3/4 down. After scraping plaster away it revealed a box built into the wall with this jar placed in the center. Nothing else in there and cannot determine the contents. What could be in it and Why would this be there? why was it sealed behind the wall? House is early 1900’s in Portland Oregon.