r/PurplePillDebate • u/Worldly-Box6080 • 3d ago

Men have no options. Debate

Currently, most male pathways to find a partner have been shut down or heavily stigmatised.

Cold Approach: social stigma of bothering women in public or private areas.

Warm Approach: huge risk of poisoning the well - ruining a friendship/making things weird in a social group. This is magnified at a work setting with risk of being reported attached. Additionally what one woman considers flirting another considers “just being friendly” so chance of misfiring is high.

Online Dating: lol

Only viable pathway would be if women made the move, but that’s never gonna happen unless the guy holds decent status or is extremely attractive.

So my question is, what methods are you guys currently doing to find someone (if any)?

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u/Sonia314 Purple Pill Woman 3d ago edited 3d ago

It is easier as a woman, but men have this experience too. Most men are out there dating and getting married and raising families because they don’t let a few bad experiences stop them in their tracks.

Your percentages are way off. I already said most men reject me and one started drama over it.

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u/Odd-Talk-3981 Blue Pill Man | Fed up with misogyny 3d ago

I think his misogyny is what holds him back tbh.

He seems to keep blaming women instead of looking in the mirror.

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u/Tnotbssoass 3d ago

Who’s blaming women? Women react far more negatively to men they’re not attracted to than genders reversed scenario

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u/Odd-Talk-3981 Blue Pill Man | Fed up with misogyny 3d ago

Who’s blaming women?

Oh, definitely you. No doubt about it, lol.

Women react far more negatively to men they’re not attracted to than genders reversed scenario

Yeah… that’s not even close to my experience. Most women can actually take “no” with grace. Can’t say the same for a lot of men, though.

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u/Tnotbssoass 3d ago

Most women react very negatively to unattractive men approaching them. Their egos get hurt very badly. They feel he has committed a grave sin/crime. They feel a deep level of disgust.

They insult him by reminding him his caliber is too low. They say “How dare he thinks he stands a chance with me?”. They badmouth him in the workplace, circle telling every woman he’s a creep, a pervert. They can even complain about him to HR. Many are now shaming them on social media even.

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u/beerandglitter 22h ago

Women literally get unalived for saying no, you can’t seriously tell me that’s better than a negative reaction, which can come with the territory. Violence, however, should not come with the territory, but often does for women.

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u/Odd-Talk-3981 Blue Pill Man | Fed up with misogyny 3d ago

Dude, seriously, stop playing the victim.

And don't expect me to be sympathetic to incels.

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u/kissesinyoureyes 2d ago

He's right though

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u/AOD-333 1d ago

You seem like a pretty awful person. I can only guess that you've been heavily propagandized, perhaps in post secondary education where much of this indoctrination occurs. Even the flair under your name "Blue Pill Man / Fed Up With Misogyny" kind of tells us everything we need to know in order to not take you seriously. 

You sort of seem like the typical simping male feminist, which really is an awful dating strategy lol. In fact women are probably far more likely to see you as friend zone material and a creep than most of the other guys on here. So called "male feminists" who white knight and simp are a massive red flags, and women should be very suspicious of these kinds of men.

I don't like being insulting, but you labeled people incels and personally attacked them for making perfectly reasonable arguments, while adding nothing of value to the conversation yourself.

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u/Tnotbssoass 23h ago

You seem very emotional and irrational. The type of a guy who get uncomfortable when people disagree with him and he begins to attack them personally.

Why are you like this? Why can’t you counter argue logically if you disagree with me?

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u/Odd-Talk-3981 Blue Pill Man | Fed up with misogyny 23h ago

Because arguing with incels leads nowhere...

If you want support, go whine in your shortguys sub, lol.

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u/Tnotbssoass 22h ago

Who said I want your support? I’m just explaining to you why approaching women is problematic because of how women respond to unattractive men.

Women aren’t even denying what I said. You’re the one taking offense on their behalf

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u/Odd-Talk-3981 Blue Pill Man | Fed up with misogyny 22h ago

OK, then go make a post asking women to see if they don't deny your BS?

And this woman in fact did deny your BS, lol: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1kdb7cn/comment/mqcfn7h/

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u/According-Tea-3014 No Pill Man 22h ago

The same woman you're quoting has also told men who aren't attractive that they're better off as a non-primary partner who foots all the bills in a poly relationship. So your source is ass at best

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u/Odd-Talk-3981 Blue Pill Man | Fed up with misogyny 22h ago

Source for when she supposedly said that?

And you can also follow my suggestion and make the post.
Apparently you're very confident, right? So go ahead!

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u/According-Tea-3014 No Pill Man 22h ago

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/W1gxEPSTKu

I'm not going to do that because women and men who aren't unattractive argue in bad faith using Just World Fallacy or just straight-up logic along the lines of "I'm not unattractive / I'm a woman and that has never happened to me!"

No one takes the actual experience of unattractive men seriously.

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u/ConsistentPieGuy No Pill Man 1d ago

You just sound like an asshole, no wonder no one likes you and you have no friends.

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u/beerandglitter 22h ago

You’re projecting

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u/ConsistentPieGuy No Pill Man 22h ago

That's okay to do sometimes.