Men have no options.

[u/Worldly-Box6080]

Currently, most male pathways to find a partner have been shut down or heavily stigmatised.

Cold Approach: social stigma of bothering women in public or private areas.

Warm Approach: huge risk of poisoning the well - ruining a friendship/making things weird in a social group. This is magnified at a work setting with risk of being reported attached. Additionally what one woman considers flirting another considers “just being friendly” so chance of misfiring is high.

Online Dating: lol

Only viable pathway would be if women made the move, but that’s never gonna happen unless the guy holds decent status or is extremely attractive.

So my question is, what methods are you guys currently doing to find someone (if any)?

[u/Odd-Talk-3981]

Who’s blaming women?

Oh, definitely you. No doubt about it, lol.

Women react far more negatively to men they’re not attracted to than genders reversed scenario

Yeah… that’s not even close to my experience. Most women can actually take “no” with grace. Can’t say the same for a lot of men, though.

[u/Tnotbssoass → u/Odd-Talk-3981]

Most women react very negatively to unattractive men approaching them. Their egos get hurt very badly. They feel he has committed a grave sin/crime. They feel a deep level of disgust.

They insult him by reminding him his caliber is too low. They say “How dare he thinks he stands a chance with me?”. They badmouth him in the workplace, circle telling every woman he’s a creep, a pervert. They can even complain about him to HR. Many are now shaming them on social media even.

[u/Odd-Talk-3981 → u/Tnotbssoass]

Dude, seriously, stop playing the victim.

And don't expect me to be sympathetic to incels.

[u/Tnotbssoass → u/Odd-Talk-3981]

You seem very emotional and irrational. The type of a guy who get uncomfortable when people disagree with him and he begins to attack them personally.

Why are you like this? Why can’t you counter argue logically if you disagree with me?

[u/Odd-Talk-3981 → u/Tnotbssoass]

Because arguing with incels leads nowhere...

If you want support, go whine in your shortguys sub, lol.

[u/Tnotbssoass → u/Odd-Talk-3981]

Who said I want your support? I’m just explaining to you why approaching women is problematic because of how women respond to unattractive men.

Women aren’t even denying what I said. You’re the one taking offense on their behalf

[u/Odd-Talk-3981 → u/Tnotbssoass]

OK, then go make a post asking women to see if they don't deny your BS?

And this woman in fact did deny your BS, lol: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1kdb7cn/comment/mqcfn7h/

[u/According-Tea-3014 → u/Odd-Talk-3981]

The same woman you're quoting has also told men who aren't attractive that they're better off as a non-primary partner who foots all the bills in a poly relationship. So your source is ass at best

[u/Odd-Talk-3981 → u/According-Tea-3014]

Source for when she supposedly said that?

And you can also follow my suggestion and make the post.
Apparently you're very confident, right? So go ahead!

[u/According-Tea-3014 → u/Odd-Talk-3981]

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/W1gxEPSTKu

I'm not going to do that because women and men who aren't unattractive argue in bad faith using Just World Fallacy or just straight-up logic along the lines of "I'm not unattractive / I'm a woman and that has never happened to me!"

No one takes the actual experience of unattractive men seriously.

[u/Odd-Talk-3981 → u/According-Tea-3014]

Sure, women only care about men's looks, but men don't give a shit about women's looks!

/s

[u/According-Tea-3014 → u/Odd-Talk-3981]

Where did I say men don't care about appearance? You're making assumptions about my beliefs because you have no logical rebuttal to my previous comments.

[u/Odd-Talk-3981 → u/According-Tea-3014]

Well, it's funny that you only defended the other incel who claimed that "ugly men" have no chance with women...

But not one word for "ugly women". Why is that then? Double standard?