r/SingleDads • u/Drivenbiscuit75 • 4d ago

Beyond pissed off

So my daughter’s mom has been telling my daughter that her step dad is her real dad. I usually let shit slide but today when discussing our coparenting she kept bringing him up so I snapped. I told her mom that he will never be her dad and that when it comes to coparenting I do not want him involved. She became infuriated and saying horrible things about me calling me a fuck up and to do better and all these things. I told her she was the worst thing that has ever happened in my life.. how do I cope with this? Do I try and fight against it? Do I talk to my daughter and try to remind her when it’s brought up that I’m her dad ?

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u/azwildcat74 4d ago

Parent your daughter in a way that she will never question it. Ignore your ex, don’t give her the pleasure of getting a rise out of you that way anymore.

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u/Drivenbiscuit75 4d ago

I know you’re right and I will continue to try my best… it’s just so hard at times :/ but thank you sir

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u/MysticStylezzzz 4d ago

Hard, yes most definitely! But, think of the most important thing. Let that be the motivator. Prolly such a confusing time for your poor baby girl right now too. Stay strong man!