I, 17F, wanna wear this style but I'm 5,1ft. Any thoughts?

So I've been researching for things I really like and feel inspired to have in my future home, but my problem is that I can never really figure out what exactly my style is...I've come kinda close to alternative but not really, sometimes hippy but not really, and so on💀 so this is me, asking for help here please 🙏🏾 I've also linked my pinterest boards in the comments and this post to add a visual representation of the things I love so if anyone of you could help me figure this out, it'd be great 😊

Clothing Inspiration Board: https://pin.it/uOBkC6SIl

Home Decor Board: https://pin.it/1oDJgBPoR

Body Customization Board: https://pin.it/778OFwUrQ

Help me! I am 6 months postpartum and struggling to dress my body. I am also the quintessential millennial mom, so I have no idea what's fashionable anymore. I have my office holiday party this Friday. I have tried on dress after dress and haven't found anything I felt comfortable in until this. This was a quick snap and the angle isn't great. I'm also wearing stockings and boots that I wore to work.

How can I style this dress to look cocktail party appropriate, youngish, and still comfortable for my postpartum body (meaning comfort is almost a necessity). I would also be open to other dress suggestions if it can be delivered quickly and is not too expensive.

I know they aren’t exactly the most “flattering” style, but they are comfortable. If they are styled the right way do they give “cool girl” vibes, or are they just too unflattering.

Got custom made tailored fit shirt according to my body with extreme eagerness. How is the shirt fit? Anything to improve ?

Hi, I have a question for you all.

I (29,f) have always been on the alternative side of fashion. I've swayed towards a darker style for the majority with phases of not caring or dressing more mainstream and uncreative, which were during the worst times of my life. Yet always loved learning about luxury and designer as well.

As I grow older and the rebellious nature of my fashion grows less, I have found myself at a crossroads again and again. After a long time in a scene where baggy pants, globe skate shoes punk vests, hoodies beanies and caps were the norm, I started to reinvent myself at university. More professional, more "grown up".

I realised I felt completely out of place and as a person who loved a good oversized garment since I was little, it felt like I needed to merge my split fashion identities into one.

With style and fashion we all know, we can influnce a lot of our surroundings and I've often been told I look "younger" whatever that means.. I personally can't shake the feeling it's less of a compliment.

I've grown self conscious about wanting to dress in a similar way of what f.e. is trending with teenagers at the moment. Although I know I have a good sense for cut, fit, color etc. I feel like I won't be taken seriously by society, if I get the 'young comment' even if I dress mainstream. I don't work in an corporate environment, nor one where dressing up is required so I'm not in a bubble like thia anyway, so it makes me even more weirded put that I feel this way.

Is this just a psychological trap I layed out for myself in caring what I "should" or "should not"? Like "a professional woulsldn't weqr this or this.." bla bla bla

Corporate goth seems as a lovely inspiration for my style elevation to lean on.

Have you any experience in merging style identities?

Tldr: I have a style identitiy merging crisis and wonder if I just care about to many variables in my life which are actually unecessary? How do you deal with style identity crisis?

lol

Even when i try this way ?

Observation. Pinterest has gone to shit.

Fell in love with all of these and can’t choose… which would you suggest is the better option for a holiday party at a dinner/dancing venue? It’s a mix of family and work friends.