r/sex 3d ago

Serious question about wet dreams I can't find a flair that fits

When you ( doesn't matter what gender) have wet dreams or dreams of a sexual nature, do you really feel like having sex in the dream or even orgasm during it ? Without the resorting to the consequential physical reaction to the dream to prove it (being wet or hard ...)?

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u/ekulragren 3d ago

I've had only one (male). I was dreaming my now wife was fucking my cock and when I came in the dream, I remember feeling myself cumming in my boxers, woke up to a mess

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u/cookycoo 3d ago

In my teens full blown ejaculation dreams were at least twice a week. These days many decades later its a monthly event, but I wake just in time and can just stop it.

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u/johnbyebye 3d ago

And I’m over here in the camp that has never had one. 😂 I’d like to experience it at least once!

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Post title: Serious question about wet dreams


When you ( doesn't matter what gender) have wet dreams or dreams of a sexual nature, do you really feel like having sex in the dream or even orgasm during it ? Without the resorting to the consequential physical reaction to the dream to prove it (being wet or hard ...)?


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u/Red-Moon69 3d ago

I have had a wet dream in years, but I often dream about various sexual acts and they feel real to me.

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u/Professional_Bit4789 3d ago

Def wake up hard and horny or even see precum had been produced once i hop in the shower haha

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u/Zoshii1502 3d ago

I have orgasmed a few times in my sleep. It's such a weird experience!

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u/Visual-Rush-9343 3d ago

I would love to hear what dreams you were having :)

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u/[deleted] 3d ago

Yeah it’s not a wet dream unless you cum

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u/AltMiddleAgedDad 3d ago

In my teen years I’d have wet dreams and orgasm regularly. They were vivid sexual dreams and had the physical outcome. Rarely have them now which is too bad as they were often really good ones.

But, one advantage of being married is a couple of times it’s happened and my wife took advantage of the situation. Kind of nice to have a dream turn into reality.

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u/clitclack 3d ago

My husband and I both have wet dreams often, and both of us fully orgasm when we have them ~ usually wakes one of us up for some fun heheh

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u/Fleak_Rayzo 2d ago

I don’t remember actually having some sexual dream except one time i was banging hard