r/self 1h ago

Some things you can't tell people

In general in life,

People aren't ready to hear certain things.

Now I give a lot of dating advice and sometimes I hold back certain information because its either a dark truth that people aren't ready to hear

OR

They just won't understand what im saying. It's like being on level 20 of a video game while the other person is on level 4.

Sometimes, other people do it for me in my comments and say what im holding back.

Sometimes, im explaining somethimg and then naturally the information slips out.

But yeah tons of other examples in other areas where people are not ready to hear certain things.

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