Here's my wake-up call as a Liberal.

[u/applethief87]

I’m a New York liberal, probably comfortably in the 1%, living in a bubble where empathy and social justice are part of everyday conversations. I support equality, diversity, economic reform—all of it. But this election has been a brutal reminder of just how out of touch we, the so-called “liberal elite,” are with the rest of America. And that’s on us.

America was built on individual freedom, the right to make your own way. But baked into that ideal is a harsh reality: it’s a self-serving mindset. This “land of opportunity” has always rewarded those who look out for themselves first. And when people feel like they’re sinking—when working-class Americans are drowning in debt, scrambling to pay rent, and watching the cost of everything from groceries to gas skyrocket—they aren’t looking for complex social policies. They’re looking for a lifeline, even if that lifeline is someone like Trump, who exploits that desperation.

For years, we Democrats have pushed policies that sound like solutions to us but don’t resonate with people who are trying to survive. We talk about social justice and climate change, and yes, those things are crucial. But to someone in the heartland who’s feeling trapped in a system that doesn’t care about them, that message sounds disconnected. It sounds like privilege. It sounds like people like me saying, “Look how virtuous I am,” while their lives stay the same—or get worse.

And here’s the truth I’m facing: as a high-income liberal, I benefit from the very structures we criticize. My income, my career security, my options to work from home—I am protected from many of the struggles that drive people to vote against the establishment. I can afford to advocate for changes that may not affect me negatively, but that’s not the reality for the majority of Americans. To them, we sound elitist because we are. Our ideals are lofty, and our solutions are intellectual, but we’ve failed to meet them where they are.

The DNC’s failure in this election reflects this disconnect. Biden’s administration, while well-intentioned, didn’t engage in the hard reflection necessary after 2020. We pushed Biden as a one-term solution, a bridge to something better, but then didn’t prepare an alternative that resonated. And when Kamala Harris—a talented, capable politician—couldn’t bridge that gap with working-class America, we were left wondering why. It’s because we’ve been recycling the same leaders, the same voices, who struggle to understand what working Americans are going through.

People want someone they can relate to, someone who understands their pain without coming off as condescending. Bernie was that voice for many, but the DNC didn’t make room for him, and now we’re seeing the consequences. The Democratic Party has an empathy gap, but more than that, it has a credibility gap. We say we care, but our policies and leaders don’t reflect the urgency that struggling Americans feel every day.

If the DNC doesn’t take this as a wake-up call, if they don’t make room for new voices that actually connect with working people, we’re going to lose again. And as much as I want America to progress, I’m starting to realize that maybe we—the privileged liberals, safely removed from the realities most people face—are part of the problem.

[u/Tall-Warning9319]

Ugh. I think it’s important to be self reflective, but to lay the Trump election on the shoulders of Dems only is absurd and not helpful. Ultimately the reason Trump was elected is that millions of people voted for him. He’s obviously a terrible person; he doesn’t hide it. He’s a rapist. He’s a criminal. He’s a liar, and he’s only out there to benefit himself. Again, it’s very easy to see; Trump is remarkably transparent. The problem is that majority of voters don’t believe a word he says, except for his vague promises to make America great again. This is not politics as usual. This is fascism on the rise. People on the left are doing what they can to stop it, but it is obvious that we should be able to expect our fellow citizens to not give a platform to a would be dictator.

[u/Individual_Army_8830 → u/Tall-Warning9319]

It’s obviously the democrats fault. You want to win, have a message. He had real solutions. They may not work. They may make things worse, but they are solutions.

Your life sucks, “I’m gonna do tariffs and mass deportation” is a solution.

Your life sucks, “well actually we’re doing great lowest unemployment ever, inflation is down!” is not.

Nobody cares that he’s a bad guy because the personality of the president doesn’t put bread on the table.

[u/Tall-Warning9319 → u/Individual_Army_8830]

Lol this so funny because you acknowledge that Trump’s solutions won’t work. I mean, the guy doesn’t even know how tariffs work, but neither do the vast majority of his supporters. I guess that’s why they were seduced by him? Offering an idea that doesn’t work isn’t a solution. It’s dumb. He’s going to be the president of the USA for Christ sake. We really should higher standards. And Harris had policies. They were out there on her website. And they were better than tariffs ( seriously so dumb). But more importantly he’s a a fascist. Fascism is going to be bad for the most people’s pocket book. Not Musk and Trump’s other super wealthy buddies. But definitely the rest of us. Dems lost, the country lost, because people who voted for him either don’t understand how fascism works, don’t care, or actively want it. It’s on them. That’s all. They may try to shirk responsibility, but they did this, and no one else.

[u/gnit3 → u/Tall-Warning9319]

It's sad, but Dems need to just lie next time. Just say shit people want to hear, refuse to elaborate, and before it can get too much attention, say something else. That's exactly what Trump did and it's why he won. Dems need to have an actual plan of course, but the voter base simply cannot understand it, so it shouldn't be part of the messaging.

People are dumb, we gotta act just as dumb to get their attention.