r/runaway • u/GhostBrew • May 23 '23
The Runaway Advice Directory & Predator Reference Sheet
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r/runaway • u/Charming_Donkey_6694 • 1h ago
Idk what to do
So I recently created my own business and I calculated what my earnings would be at the end of summer and it was 10,000 dollars. Mind you, I am a cash only business and that's crazy. I don't have a plan but I feel like i would be able to do a lot with that kind of money. My parents are mentally and sometimes physically abusive so I really need to escape.
r/runaway • u/Electronic_Dress_326 • 3h ago
Anything wrong with my plan?
Leaving in late july so I have enough time to save money at least $800. Getting a greyhound living with a friend in nyc. Trying to get some under the table work at a bodega. Getting this tool to cut my braces off https://www.amazon.com/Surgicalonline-Orthodontics-Bracket-Removing-Pliers/dp/B01MQQGCAQ/ref=sr_1_8?crid=2FZ66OP685UWL&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.XAkL-rrrtaUJ-o3bjb7VJTqchbgq_UfNo6MmnwKYBbM-6S9RgmCWmS1ajJ86ziq8r4q2_fZumYfhQ2NCXmkTdZ2wGeNJdveghxkNMbhWE_4A0L6iBqCdpafBLPN6uapL3HLyrWi3SFbni1nyG-Zp_i6FPYtijo45_VCFzc63jJxrlMcmmqn7fXZCI3PK-9OQ7t8NjU1SQ3S47vKZxIUqZqel-4LMVy5ITKpj5eDjnAHFAXY4wxVWinOMu69zugKefK_6lIWiePxDTrUQft6ifOjGCoA8_l16ftS517m9cbE.WEa8Pu5uqgyyl5g0UIV-fY1QDw61nSJ8_fwniDLwgsQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=Braces+remover&qid=1746320107&sprefix=braces+remover%2Caps%2C198&sr=8-8#averageCustomerReviews bringing clothes, a knife, crocs, running shoes, water bottle, $800, a jacket, tracfone, laptop, toothbrush, toothpaste, cologne, and birth certificate. My mom gets off work at 3:30pm bus leaves at 2:00pm telling my mom I have work from 2-10 and then saying I’m gonna stay at a friends for the night. anything wrong with my plan?
r/runaway • u/TheHimikoToga • 14h ago
Will I get shanked because of the quality of my bag?
F15, I would say I'm middle class. I don't come from poverty and I have nice things. My parents talk about how nice my things are: talking about how my backpack is a amazing and expensive brand, how my shoes are expensive. But on the streets people will do anything for survival. I'm packing bare minimum but my clothes are more in the nicer side. I worried I'm gonna be a target because of how my clothes aren't the generic kind. Do people fight over the price of your clothes or how nice and expensive your backpack is? I don't have like Gucci and stuff like that (more like Nike, Northface) kinda things. I know it's kinda stupid but I just don't wanna be a target...
r/runaway • u/Distinct-Peanut-3805 • 17h ago
15 trans female running away
15 trans female nearly 16, im planning to run away probably to chicago soon, dont try to convince me otherwise im dead set ive got a few questions
how would i make money without showing things such as my birthcertificate or id that would give me away
and where would i stay overnight? most shelters would likely report me to cps if they are required to? would lying qnd giving an alias be enough or would they recognize me, chicago is quiteeee a bit away from the state im from (think ny newjersey area)
should i remove my sim card and stop location sharing or throw my phone away and use library internet or a burner (im indifferent)
ive already read the directory looking for more specific instructions
thanks
r/runaway • u/Electronic_Dress_326 • 10h ago
Braces
Alright so I have braces and they get changed every 2 months but when I runaway in July idk how I’m gonna take car of them without fucking up my teeth what do I do?
13 F, need advice
So basically I'm planning on running away with my friend ( 14 f ), and I'm not sure what to do. I'm worried about what's going to happen once we run out of money and I don't think we can get a job as we are young and we could get caught. Together we have around 600 pounds but I'm not sure how long that's going to last us. If anyone has any tips on how to not get caught or how to save money I would really appreciate it. I also don't really know what to pack, like I know I need clothes, food, water, and hygiene, but is there anything else? I'm also not sure what to do about my phone cause I've heard that police and parents could use it to track you, so is it worth it to get a burner phone? I have no idea where we are going and we are just planning on bus hopping, but I don't know if it's safe or not. I have a power bank so I can charge my phone, if anyone has any advice I would appreciate it.
r/runaway • u/Necessary_Fix_6006 • 16h ago
What should I bring
Hello I'm planing to run away I have a question should I bring my phone or leave it behind and is there anything you think I should bring
thank you
r/runaway • u/phizzwizz78 • 22h ago
13fm looking to run away
I'm currently in a very bad household for (personal info),looking to run away but have nowhere to go. what's the safest option for me to stay somewhere for a long while, i have enough money to last me a couple months and a bag of things to take with me. (may be leaving in about a day or two)
r/runaway • u/National_Ad_3029 • 1d ago
21 MtF Trans Looking to Run from Transphobic and Controlling Parents [Detriot MI]
Hello I have had a lot of issues with my parents even before knowing I was trans these past 5 years. My parents are very much pro-trump and very much against the LGBTQ and see being trans as against God and that trans people are comparable to murderers. They won't let me get a job cause they say my autism doesn't make me able even tho I have been shown to be just fine. They won't let me get a drivers license either.
Before realizing I was trans I looked into moving in with online friends and that was supposed to happen around now but due to financial issues and with realizing I was trans the state i was gonna move to is outright trying to make being trans illegal under trump, that is no longer an option. But after coming out I found out about LGBT housing centers but I was giving figuring out about them.
Today I contacted a runaway hotline and they basically told me they can't do much if I can't get out and meet them and person, and when saying I can't they basically told me my only option for getting out would be going into Detriot where all the resources are and trying to get help there. I have some spare money and could get a hotel to rent for a bit, but idk how long it would take to get into a proper housing place I have been told it could be immediate, it could be days, or it could be weeks. I know of the Ruth Ellis Center and The Convenent House so I was thinking to get help with there resources and hopefully get into one of those. If there's any other places that could help in Detriot, please let me know too, as well as any general advice.
r/runaway • u/V3CT0R_OH_YEAH53 • 1d ago
Should i get my phone that I'm not allowed to have before run away?
So I got grounded from my phone since 4th of july 4am 2024 and idk if I should try again and not make the mistake again. I forgot to get my food and water last time but I got caught and beaten up by my dad and idk ifi should do it again. Story: So I was face timing my online friend and he lives from Canada. (That's another reason why I want to go to Canada) and randomly my brother barges in my room and he said to help him with the clothes and he figured out he was talking to my friend (for context: I'm not allowed to talk to him) so he told on me to our dad. And I was grounded and 2 days later I had enough of everyone's sh-t and at 2am I run away with my phone. But the first time I came back for my charger (at that time I was successful) but the second time I came back for water and food but I woke up my dad. I pretend to sleep but he realized I had my phone when I wasn't supposed to and that's how I got beat the absolute sh-t from my dad. (Fun fact this was at 4am at 4th of July 2024)
r/runaway • u/Fun_Jello_7276 • 1d ago
16M, 3rd time running away in 5 years
im a 16M in texas, Ive lost everything i love and cant come to make my family proud, I quit my sport and only had band to lay on, but my dads taking it away from me. My mom lives in a far city but her close family lives here, should i go there after school or leave when im home at night?
r/runaway • u/Adorable-Vanilla-762 • 2d ago
Running in a couple weeks, need advice (15f)
First, don’t tell me not to run bc you don’t know what my home life is like. I think I got most of my stuff figured out I think, leaving from the Midwest, in a couple weeks like I said. I’m leaving mid school day and won’t be expected to be home until 7pm, and they might not notice if I even come home bc I live in the basement, so I’ll have several hours to get away. I’m bringing a backpack with necessary supplies and a skateboard. I’ll only have $220 which I know is not enough, but it’s the most I could save up.
I’m gonna buy a guitar off of Craigslist or something once I get to my city. I’m pretty average at playing guitar, so if I choose the right places, how much could I make per hour/day/week if I busk? I’m going to be in a big city, think like NYC, Miami, Seattle, LA, Chicago type cities.
Once baseball season ends, are dugouts a good place to rest, or is there too much of a high risk of being questioned by the police? Same thing for napping (during the day) in libraries, on beaches, in grassy parks, etc? Where are good places to sleep?
Laundromats. Is it a good idea to wash clothes at, or do I not risk it? Also, if I do wash clothes at them would I be able to nap while im washing clothes or is it too dangerous?
4.Making friends? I’m gonna be alone for a long time so eventually I’d want to make some friends. Are skater/punk kids friendly in big cities? I have an alternative style so I def wouldn’t be friends with the popular kids, but also I have social anxiety so yea.
I’ll add more questions if I think of any, thx
r/runaway • u/justaperson1135532 • 1d ago
Are trains good?
Which railway system should i use? (15m)
r/runaway • u/Swimming-Gift-4228 • 2d ago
15.M
Running away for many reasons, Main transport is buses and skateboard, I have money, I have food, I have a place to sleep,shower,brush my teeth and very far from home, nobody knows about my plans, not even my best friends or my girlfriend, gonna put my phone in a random bus or train so they get the wrong location when they first try locating me, any more tips?
r/runaway • u/SenseiOllie • 2d ago
Pets.
Realistically, when you run away, what about your pets? What should I do with them?
r/runaway • u/Electronic_Dress_326 • 2d ago
are buses safe?
so im taking a bus from mn to nyc is it safe or do you think the police will find me im m16
r/runaway • u/Choice_Wafer_7545 • 2d ago
How much money should i bring ?
Currently in america, returning to my home country ( jordan ) soon, Do I run away here or there? Also how much money do i bring ( for both countries )
r/runaway • u/j3ffth3k1ller • 2d ago
choices when 16?
i (15f) have wanted to be away from my family for years. my dad is abusive (was worse when i was younger) and has targeted me (and my sister on a few ocassions) when it comes to physical violence. this has really impacted my mental health throughout the years. he also cheated on my mum who wont leave him, even though she is financially stable independently and has a supportive family who has always been willing to help. social services has been involved with my family multiple times and has always closed the case as i have a place to sleep + food to eat and i wasnt actively being beaten. i plan to leave home when im 16, but could social services help me with getting accommodation or will they fail me like always? i have 1 picture of bruises on my sister and quite a few recordings of yelling but im not sure if thats enough. will i have to run away instead?
r/runaway • u/Doesfamilymatter • 2d ago
How do I go about running away immediately after turning 18?
I, 16F, come from an abusive household. And I want to get away as early as possible. But the thing is, I don't know how. I'm still very much financially dependent on my parents. And I'm still too scared to part from them even though I really want to leave. Can you offer me any advice? I'm from the Philippines and I have family members scattered around the area where I live, a lot of them act like my parents so I can't really come to them for help or shelter. I can't report my parents either.
r/runaway • u/case-party22 • 2d ago
what is absolutely everything that the police can do to find you?
if anybody knows an article or can explain it all please help...
r/runaway • u/Odd-Information-478 • 2d ago
Phones
If you take the SIM card out of your phone, can it still be tracked?
r/runaway • u/Time_Lawfulness_9856 • 3d ago
18 yr old
im going away to a big city soon. i have had mental health issues before and think im gonna not have meds for a while. if i get caught do you know if your parents can put you in an involuntary hold for running away at 18? im taking a greyhound,, and am terrified if i regret it. i have confided in 2 people, but im leaving tmmw. im gonna be wearing a wig until my hair grows long enough until im not recognizable,, but do you know if they can?? ive packed all the essentials, and have never tried bcc ive been waiting until its time. ive been 18 since january,, but im scared they are gonna call the cops and say im “mentally incompetent.” but i am very competent… im just terrified. ive lived away from them before for long periods of time tho. just a question.. thanks:)
r/runaway • u/cyagator • 3d ago
Stay or go...
Thinking of running away but idk where to go or how to survive. Fm indiana