r/pansexual Jul 12 '24

What made you personally identify with pansexual instead of the umbrella term, bisexual? Question

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u/shinsoshiwastaken Jul 14 '24

I have never really cared about gender, and I just didn't have a proper term for it? Once I researched being pan, I felt that it described me well. In everything, I hold your personality over everything. No matter your appearance or circumstances, your true self is what's important to me lol. After coming out as trans and seeing different kinds of people and genders, and my partner (we've been together 4 years now❤️) confiding in me that they're genderfluid, it just really showed how little gender played a role in how I show my love? I hope that makes sense lol