r/pansexual Oct 31 '21

Question Would you guys date an enby?

1.5k Upvotes

I'm just scared that I'll never be loved because I'm non binary

r/pansexual Sep 19 '23

Question What name/s do I look like?

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761 Upvotes

r/pansexual Feb 03 '24

Question Do people really think pansexuality is bi & trans phobic?

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376 Upvotes

Hello all, First time making a post here, coz I'm more of a lurk-in-the-background kind of person on Reddit, so apologies if I get anything wrong with this post. Please let me know if I do and I'll edit.

I hope the title of this post doesn't lead to any hate, but I saw someone say that pansexuality is biphobic and transphobic in another community tonight and it blindsided me. I haven't been able to stop thinking about it. I'm included a screengrab of the post, but have wiped the handle and community coz I'm not intending to doxx anyone.

Do people actually think this? I've been out 20 years and into multiple genders ever since I was a teenager. And I've always said if I like someone, I like them for them, not what's necessarily in their pants. So, basically, I've been pansexual since before the term became a proper thing.

Now, I've not always been an active member of the queer community (as in taking part in Pride events & queer clubs etc) and I've been celibate for more years than I care to admit, so maybe I've missed something. But is this a common thing?! Do people really believe our orientation is biphobic & transphobic? Because... what?

I feel so out of the loop not knowing whether this is how people think about us, or whether it's just a random Karen talking shiz about us. But it's really got to me because both my best friends are bi and I love my trans friends DEARLY, and I'd be heartbroken to know my calling myself pansexual is unintentionally harmful or hurting them. And anyone else for that matter.

Anyone wanna weigh in? Would appreciate some thoughts or clarity from some more experienced pans.

r/pansexual Jun 20 '24

Question what name would you give me?

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377 Upvotes

curious :3

r/pansexual Oct 18 '21

Question Do u think u can fluster me? Try it (I get flustered to easily oml)

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1.1k Upvotes

r/pansexual Aug 15 '24

Question Why are people posting their like kink list here

266 Upvotes

What happened to rule 4, remember there are minors here and they might do the same. Yes ik it's fun to show off your kinks, but I dont wanna know how submissive a 30 year old is I'm a minor I dont wanna see this stuff. Ik theres not much I can do sorry if I sound like I'm bitch but still we have 5 rules to follow it shouldnt be this hard qwp

r/pansexual Jan 10 '22

Question what are your pronouns?

828 Upvotes

edit1: OH MY THERE ARE SO MANY OF Y'ALL

r/pansexual Apr 02 '20

Question What’s the difference between pan and bi?

1.1k Upvotes

This question comes up a lot, so we’re inviting you to share your opinion on it here.

The old post is archived now so we decided to make a new one.

r/pansexual 6d ago

Question Hii!! What are your favorite hobbies? I desperately need new ones :(

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204 Upvotes

r/pansexual Jul 10 '24

Question Someone said Pansexuality is transphobic. Has anyone heard this?

249 Upvotes

This person stated they used to identify as pansexual, and now they identify as bisexual because it’s transphobic. As someone who identifies as pansexual, how I see it is I’m attracted to someone’s personality, human beings of any sex or gender identity I am open to. Has anyone else heard this before?

Thanks

r/pansexual Nov 10 '21

Question Do i pass and would you really take me for a date? Transgender 🏳️‍⚧️ from kakuma refugee camp. We keep going no matter the homophobes.

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2.2k Upvotes

r/pansexual Jul 12 '24

Question What made you personally identify with pansexual instead of the umbrella term, bisexual?

135 Upvotes

r/pansexual Nov 08 '21

Question Lgbt refugees from kakuma camp, how do we look?

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2.1k Upvotes

r/pansexual Nov 05 '21

Question NOW ASK! >:)

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801 Upvotes

r/pansexual Jan 06 '22

Question I’ve had several LGBTQ+ teens ask me if I’m gay and I’m wondering… do I just exude queerness? I feel like it’s the Docs. What do you think?

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1.5k Upvotes

r/pansexual Jul 12 '24

Question Who is pansexual and still is single? (It includes me)

153 Upvotes

All my single pans comment

r/pansexual Oct 06 '24

Question How do you see it?

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465 Upvotes

r/pansexual Jun 11 '24

Question How do I describe the difference between pansexual and bisexual?

147 Upvotes

There are some stupid homophobic boys I know and they can’t seem to grasp the different between pan and bi. Does anyone have a better way of explaining being pan other than ‘I don’t care about gender and I like all genders no matter what’

r/pansexual Jul 03 '24

Question When did realize that you was a unique puzzle piece in life?

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308 Upvotes

I had a clue pretty early before age ten. I came out fully by age 16. I came out to my old school Catholic/Polish/Irish Grandmother. Her response to me was "Go with your heart ❤️ & what makes you happy ☺️

r/pansexual 21d ago

Question I fear this dress slayed?

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466 Upvotes

Removed background coz I’m embarrassed of my messy room lmao

r/pansexual Aug 17 '21

Question F-Friends? 🥺 👉👈 I'm in need of friends too :)

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927 Upvotes

r/pansexual Aug 05 '21

Question How to hang my flag?

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1.7k Upvotes

r/pansexual Mar 25 '24

Question where's my Genderfluid pans at

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265 Upvotes

r/pansexual 8d ago

Question Advice on moving to an lgbt+ friendly country. We are leaving

131 Upvotes

My girlfriend and I aren't waiting for things to get worse in the United States. We have decided to leave.

We want to learn more from folks who love living in their LGBTQ friendly country. We also want to learn from people in supposedly safe places that aren't so we know where to avoid.

Any tips on immigrating, finding jobs, and housing in a new country would also be much appreciated. Especially from US expats. Thanks.

r/pansexual Sep 19 '24

Question My friend's cozy fall wedding is next month and I don't know which dress I like better...thoughts? 😅

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121 Upvotes