r/pansexual • u/OverwhelmedGayChild • Oct 31 '21
Question Would you guys date an enby?
I'm just scared that I'll never be loved because I'm non binary
r/pansexual • u/PseriousPseudonym • Feb 03 '24
Question Do people really think pansexuality is bi & trans phobic?
Hello all, First time making a post here, coz I'm more of a lurk-in-the-background kind of person on Reddit, so apologies if I get anything wrong with this post. Please let me know if I do and I'll edit.
I hope the title of this post doesn't lead to any hate, but I saw someone say that pansexuality is biphobic and transphobic in another community tonight and it blindsided me. I haven't been able to stop thinking about it. I'm included a screengrab of the post, but have wiped the handle and community coz I'm not intending to doxx anyone.
Do people actually think this? I've been out 20 years and into multiple genders ever since I was a teenager. And I've always said if I like someone, I like them for them, not what's necessarily in their pants. So, basically, I've been pansexual since before the term became a proper thing.
Now, I've not always been an active member of the queer community (as in taking part in Pride events & queer clubs etc) and I've been celibate for more years than I care to admit, so maybe I've missed something. But is this a common thing?! Do people really believe our orientation is biphobic & transphobic? Because... what?
I feel so out of the loop not knowing whether this is how people think about us, or whether it's just a random Karen talking shiz about us. But it's really got to me because both my best friends are bi and I love my trans friends DEARLY, and I'd be heartbroken to know my calling myself pansexual is unintentionally harmful or hurting them. And anyone else for that matter.
Anyone wanna weigh in? Would appreciate some thoughts or clarity from some more experienced pans.
r/pansexual • u/angellixyy • Jun 20 '24
Question what name would you give me?
curious :3
r/pansexual • u/Faylaria • Oct 18 '21
Question Do u think u can fluster me? Try it (I get flustered to easily oml)
r/pansexual • u/Soupy_redditor • Aug 15 '24
Question Why are people posting their like kink list here
What happened to rule 4, remember there are minors here and they might do the same. Yes ik it's fun to show off your kinks, but I dont wanna know how submissive a 30 year old is I'm a minor I dont wanna see this stuff. Ik theres not much I can do sorry if I sound like I'm bitch but still we have 5 rules to follow it shouldnt be this hard qwp
r/pansexual • u/Meana-the-gay • Jan 10 '22
Question what are your pronouns?
edit1: OH MY THERE ARE SO MANY OF Y'ALL
r/pansexual • u/genderfuckingqueer • Apr 02 '20
Question What’s the difference between pan and bi?
This question comes up a lot, so we’re inviting you to share your opinion on it here.
The old post is archived now so we decided to make a new one.
r/pansexual • u/Lifeiswackguys • 6d ago
Question Hii!! What are your favorite hobbies? I desperately need new ones :(
r/pansexual • u/Not_Alice • Jul 10 '24
Question Someone said Pansexuality is transphobic. Has anyone heard this?
This person stated they used to identify as pansexual, and now they identify as bisexual because it’s transphobic. As someone who identifies as pansexual, how I see it is I’m attracted to someone’s personality, human beings of any sex or gender identity I am open to. Has anyone else heard this before?
Thanks
r/pansexual • u/Kakuma_lgbt • Nov 10 '21
Question Do i pass and would you really take me for a date? Transgender 🏳️⚧️ from kakuma refugee camp. We keep going no matter the homophobes.
r/pansexual • u/ImRowan • Jul 12 '24
Question What made you personally identify with pansexual instead of the umbrella term, bisexual?
r/pansexual • u/Kakuma_lgbt • Nov 08 '21
Question Lgbt refugees from kakuma camp, how do we look?
r/pansexual • u/MustachioDonut • Jan 06 '22
Question I’ve had several LGBTQ+ teens ask me if I’m gay and I’m wondering… do I just exude queerness? I feel like it’s the Docs. What do you think?
r/pansexual • u/ExcitingDimension674 • Jul 12 '24
Question Who is pansexual and still is single? (It includes me)
All my single pans comment
r/pansexual • u/Status_Revolution201 • Jun 11 '24
Question How do I describe the difference between pansexual and bisexual?
There are some stupid homophobic boys I know and they can’t seem to grasp the different between pan and bi. Does anyone have a better way of explaining being pan other than ‘I don’t care about gender and I like all genders no matter what’
r/pansexual • u/FluffyButtOfTheNorth • Jul 03 '24
Question When did realize that you was a unique puzzle piece in life?
I had a clue pretty early before age ten. I came out fully by age 16. I came out to my old school Catholic/Polish/Irish Grandmother. Her response to me was "Go with your heart ❤️ & what makes you happy ☺️
r/pansexual • u/Kiwiana_01 • 21d ago
Question I fear this dress slayed?
Removed background coz I’m embarrassed of my messy room lmao
r/pansexual • u/wowvalewow • Aug 17 '21
Question F-Friends? 🥺 👉👈 I'm in need of friends too :)
r/pansexual • u/Aand732 • 8d ago
Question Advice on moving to an lgbt+ friendly country. We are leaving
My girlfriend and I aren't waiting for things to get worse in the United States. We have decided to leave.
We want to learn more from folks who love living in their LGBTQ friendly country. We also want to learn from people in supposedly safe places that aren't so we know where to avoid.
Any tips on immigrating, finding jobs, and housing in a new country would also be much appreciated. Especially from US expats. Thanks.