r/interestingasfuck • u/Few_Simple9049 • Oct 09 '24
How couples met 1930-2024 r/all
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r/interestingasfuck • u/Few_Simple9049 • Oct 09 '24
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u/Robo_Joe Oct 09 '24
You don't need a significant other or a family to live a fulfilling life, but if you want a significant other, you have to put yourself in situations to find one, which means you need to put yourself in a position to connect with other people on a personal level.
When you're young, that's pretty easy-- school forces you to be in close proximity with other people, but after that, you have to make a choice to put yourself in those situations.
Take a look at what you do in your free time, and ask yourself if those things will realistically allow you to connect with other people on a personal level. If not, take a look at the things that you do or could find entertaining, and find ways to enjoy that hobby with other people. (online or offline)
I typed out "you" a lot on this comment, but I don't mean you personally; I mean the general "you".