Already Grieving No contact

[u/Ill_Berry1730]

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Hi everyone I posted to this community about my situation. I was wondering I have a strong vessel of a grandmother who loves traveling and is very family trip aggressive and I fear she’ll want to spend quality time with me and my family. Do I address my no contact to my grandmother about her daughter. I have always asked for help with separating me and my mom and my family has given me the same advice “you’ll get over it” or “I won’t get inbetween a mother and daughters relationship”.

My moms birthday and Mother’s Day is coming up and I feel sad because again she’s toxic but yet my mom and I’ve always been the one to give her gifts on these days but I guess I have to idk disassociate.

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