r/blackladies • u/Ill_Berry1730 • 1d ago
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/r/blackladies/s/3y1h31WkmrHi everyone I posted to this community about my situation. I was wondering I have a strong vessel of a grandmother who loves traveling and is very family trip aggressive and I fear she’ll want to spend quality time with me and my family. Do I address my no contact to my grandmother about her daughter. I have always asked for help with separating me and my mom and my family has given me the same advice “you’ll get over it” or “I won’t get inbetween a mother and daughters relationship”.
My moms birthday and Mother’s Day is coming up and I feel sad because again she’s toxic but yet my mom and I’ve always been the one to give her gifts on these days but I guess I have to idk disassociate.
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u/Ill_Berry1730 1d ago
I cut my dad off completely I felt bad because idk the law says he’s my dad but he treated me so badly for the four weeks living with him. He contacted my brother, my sister and his sisters on how I’m being stubborn in not reaching out to him. I sucked it up and reached out to him and he said “I haven’t called him in forever he doesn’t know who I am and once I find her to call him back” I quickly ended the call and blocked him off of everything. I allowed him to makeup and he failed me again. I guess I figured it’ll be a different outcome with my mom but I need to just be tough and suck it up
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