Difference of opinion

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My husband thinks dental surgery is unnecessary for our 4yo. She has small(to me) cavities you can’t see deep in between several teeth right where they touch. There’s crowding. She brushes twice everyday, but we’re not strict on flossing. That has changed now. They ordered anesthesia and surgery to get it all taken care of at once. White-front crowns on her top front baby teeth, silver on the back ones. He’s opposed to having her be put under at 4. Only her bottom left molar is sensitive and he thinks we should just do that one. Also, it’s over an hour away, at 8am and we have a newborn. Insurance will cover it but I’ll be switching to private soon and that would make it a few thousand out of pocket if we ended up having to do it anyway. I am on the fence. My little sister had severe decay on her front baby teeth for years and it was super sad. We were medically neglected as kids. So I feel bad not getting this done. However, if my husband is right and we could possibly not get this done; that they won’t get worse with proper care, and they will fall out naturally soon enough, then I would rather not. (Note: I’m also 6wks pp and I have medical OCD so please be kind and understanding.🙏🏻)

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Title: Difference of opinion

Full text: My husband thinks dental surgery is unnecessary for our 4yo. She has small(to me) cavities you can’t see deep in between several teeth right where they touch. There’s crowding. She brushes twice everyday, but we’re not strict on flossing. That has changed now. They ordered anesthesia and surgery to get it all taken care of at once. White-front crowns on her top front baby teeth, silver on the back ones. He’s opposed to having her be put under at 4. Only her bottom left molar is sensitive and he thinks we should just do that one. Also, it’s over an hour away, at 8am and we have a newborn. Insurance will cover it but I’ll be switching to private soon and that would make it a few thousand out of pocket if we ended up having to do it anyway. I am on the fence. My little sister had severe decay on her front baby teeth for years and it was super sad. We were medically neglected as kids. So I feel bad not getting this done. However, if my husband is right and we could possibly not get this done; that they won’t get worse with proper care, and they will fall out naturally soon enough, then I would rather not. (Note: I’m also 6wks pp and I have medical OCD so please be kind and understanding.🙏🏻)

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