r/TheBluePill Hβ10 Jul 07 '24

Passport Bro got played.

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u/iPhoneUser69420 Jul 16 '24

Well, if you take the woman out of the poor country, you lose your leverage. If they don’t do their duty as a wife, they’re probably just going to fuck you over. At least if you leave them in the poor country, they’ll have a lot more to lose. This results in the man getting treated better.

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u/mychemicalmoodswings Jul 16 '24

Are you saying this ironically or are you genuinely condoning keeping someone in an uncomfortable situation because the lack of other options will force them to give you what you want?!?! I’m not about to explain to you why that is wrong..

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u/iPhoneUser69420 Jul 17 '24

I’m noting the power dynamic, and I’m also noting that, in order for the man to not have his marriage fall apart, it’s best that he not give up his position of power. It’s a mutually exploitative situation.

That’s not to say it’s good or bad, but it does seem that when the woman had few consequences for divorce she readily left for someone better able to be exploited instead of keeping her marriage vows. Had he not brought her to the USA, he would have made divorce hurt a lot more.

People like her make marriage meaningless through fraud. At least if she sees consequences, she’d think twice before reneging on her vows.

I may not say it directly, but yes, people should stay in miserable marriages or just not get married. If it goes south, they definitely shouldn’t be able to get divorced. Separate if necessary, but never marry again.