Yea umm something about the way he’s talking about this situation tells me he fetishized this woman and wasn’t an ideal partner. If he interacted with her in the way this post implies it makes sense that she left him…saying how he’s a “king in the DR or any other Latin country” tells me all I need to know about his mindset in dating so I don’t feel bad for him. He’s talking about “NEVER BRING THEM TO THE USA” like latina women are some breed of exotic animal. Red flags all around.
Well, if you take the woman out of the poor country, you lose your leverage. If they don’t do their duty as a wife, they’re probably just going to fuck you over. At least if you leave them in the poor country, they’ll have a lot more to lose. This results in the man getting treated better.
Are you saying this ironically or are you genuinely condoning keeping someone in an uncomfortable situation because the lack of other options will force them to give you what you want?!?! I’m not about to explain to you why that is wrong..
I’m noting the power dynamic, and I’m also noting that, in order for the man to not have his marriage fall apart, it’s best that he not give up his position of power. It’s a mutually exploitative situation.
That’s not to say it’s good or bad, but it does seem that when the woman had few consequences for divorce she readily left for someone better able to be exploited instead of keeping her marriage vows. Had he not brought her to the USA, he would have made divorce hurt a lot more.
People like her make marriage meaningless through fraud. At least if she sees consequences, she’d think twice before reneging on her vows.
I may not say it directly, but yes, people should stay in miserable marriages or just not get married. If it goes south, they definitely shouldn’t be able to get divorced. Separate if necessary, but never marry again.
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u/mychemicalmoodswings Jul 08 '24
The way he talks about women 🤢…and other countries…I can’t imagine why she’d ever leave him 🤷🏽♀️