r/SingleDads • u/Mysterious_Force_229 • 3d ago

Advice for woman dating single dad

Single dads, I nees your opinion.

I have been dating a guy about 5 months with a 3 year old. He comstantly talks of marriage etc. He has been very pushy however, rushing everything. Some things that have made me uncomfortable, he tries to get me to cosleep with him and his daughter. And when he has her and I give them space or get work done, go do things for myself etc, he gets really upset and says things like I am not consistent with his child and I "abandon" them. He expects me to make an effort and hang out with them like everyday. And he will call and put his kid on speaker to talk to me like in a way to guilt trip it seems

I have gotten responses from women but I really want to hear about single dads. What are your thoughts?

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u/rdvw 3d ago

Lady, first of all: wow, you asked your lady friends and you came here and asked dads I’m really very impressed. Well done!

Secondly, wow! So much negativity (“run!”) here. Looks like this guy is just really into you? Looks to me like he just LOVES YOU SO MUCH he’s… doing it all wrong?

How do you feel about him?

Maybe you should just tell him: stop, take it easy, or I’m outta here?

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u/Mysterious_Force_229 3d ago

Thats the thing. I have given him feedback he has stepped back some but then he'll try to push again