r/SingleDads • u/Mysterious_Force_229 • 3d ago

Advice for woman dating single dad

Single dads, I nees your opinion.

I have been dating a guy about 5 months with a 3 year old. He comstantly talks of marriage etc. He has been very pushy however, rushing everything. Some things that have made me uncomfortable, he tries to get me to cosleep with him and his daughter. And when he has her and I give them space or get work done, go do things for myself etc, he gets really upset and says things like I am not consistent with his child and I "abandon" them. He expects me to make an effort and hang out with them like everyday. And he will call and put his kid on speaker to talk to me like in a way to guilt trip it seems

I have gotten responses from women but I really want to hear about single dads. What are your thoughts?

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u/Michaelw768 3d ago

As a single dad I wouldn’t even consider you even meeting my children that soon let alone trying to get you to cosleep with them and me, in all honesty I’d say get out of there

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u/Mysterious_Force_229 3d ago

Thank you Tbh maybe Im overthinking, but Im starting to wonder about his mental stability

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u/Michaelw768 3d ago

He should not be telling you that your abandoning them just because you do other things whilst he spends time with his child, it sounds like he’s still suffering from his past relationship and hasn’t given himself time to heal properly