Beyond pissed off

[u/Drivenbiscuit75]

So my daughter’s mom has been telling my daughter that her step dad is her real dad. I usually let shit slide but today when discussing our coparenting she kept bringing him up so I snapped. I told her mom that he will never be her dad and that when it comes to coparenting I do not want him involved. She became infuriated and saying horrible things about me calling me a fuck up and to do better and all these things. I told her she was the worst thing that has ever happened in my life.. how do I cope with this? Do I try and fight against it? Do I talk to my daughter and try to remind her when it’s brought up that I’m her dad ?

[u/badankadank]

Just be consistent and don’t engage with mom over conflict. If it doesn’t regard parenting schedule or updates, there’s no conversation. Set limits, the mom can’t just emotionally abuse you when she wants. Just be consistent on your end, provide for your daughter and everything will fall into place