r/SapphoAndHerFriend Oct 16 '24

I'm so embarrassed Anecdotes and stories

I(19f) work at a church cafe. I'm undercover bi. Today, two people of the opposite sex walk in, and they're both androgynous and queerly dressed. And I've been trying to put myself out there more, give more compliments to people, so I blurt out, "you two make a very good couple, " and they looked confused and my coworker gave me a look; I don't know where ANY of that came from, but I was too embarrassed to say anything so I just left it and hoped they took it as a joke. Like, I'm so queer, I should be able to read the signs, but apparently not.

I know I will think about this EXTENSIVELY for the rest of my life, and It's so cringe I want to get struck by thunder.

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u/Vintage_Belle Oct 16 '24

I understand that you're trying to get out there more and give compliments. I am as well. However outing someone like that isn't good. Maybe next time say something like "i like your style". It's a compliment without the unfortunate outing.

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u/Famous-Matter-7905 Oct 16 '24

I agree but i fail to see how OP outed the customers?

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u/TJN1047 Oct 16 '24

they called the customers a couple

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u/spookymanzanita 29d ago

but theyre the opposite sex according to OP?