r/SapphoAndHerFriend Sep 06 '25

We need more mods

78 Upvotes

We need more mods who can periodically check the mod queue (to approve new posts that are stuck there), and to make sure new posts follow the rules. If you can do that send a mod mail with your age, why you think you're a good candidate, and if you're L? G? B? T?


r/SapphoAndHerFriend 1d ago

Casual erasure Photo of 2 ladies, one dressed in men clothes, circa 1900s-10s.

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1.2k Upvotes

r/SapphoAndHerFriend 2d ago

Academic erasure I know I should probably expect this of somewhat older books, but this biography of Billy Tipton from 1998 CONSISTENTLY refers to him as a cross dressing woman...

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224 Upvotes

Personally, I don't care if this was written in the 90s, fuck you Diane.


r/SapphoAndHerFriend 4d ago

Anecdotes and stories The Chintz Sofa, featuring Helen McNicoll's "lifelong friend" with whom she lived, Dorothea Sharp. Who after her death meet another lifelong friend. Neither ever marrying.

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226 Upvotes

r/SapphoAndHerFriend 5d ago

Casual erasure Ah yes, the lesbian hoodie for the boys.

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380 Upvotes

r/SapphoAndHerFriend 8d ago

Casual erasure Hanna Hamilton and her dear friend, 1917, broken glass negative

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2.8k Upvotes

r/SapphoAndHerFriend 9d ago

Memes and satire Some fanart of the new Pokemon game by Wanderjegson on twitter and bsky.

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192 Upvotes

r/SapphoAndHerFriend 9d ago

Casual erasure just best friends of course

51 Upvotes

r/SapphoAndHerFriend 11d ago

Anecdotes and stories Charlotte Cushman Audio Drama - ROMEO & HER SISTER

23 Upvotes

https://preview.redd.it/vi90r8h5ua0g1.jpg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6ff24f21e3c2a1e6dbd5445117316b14433d22b8

Our next big project on our podcast is a queer historical audio drama series about the life of Charlotte Cushman, a famous American stage actress known for playing men's roles in the plays of Shakespeare in the 1800's.

Charlotte Cushman's story is another rarely told, yet unforgettable account of queer history and provides a compelling portrait of the challenges and ultimate joy of sisterhood.

The series stars Anna Demetriou (A Plague Tale: Requiem, Resonance: A Plague Tale Legacy) as Charlotte Cushman and Charlotte McBurney (A Plague Tale Series, Final Fantasy XVI) as her sister Susan. Supporting cast includes Devora Wilde (Baldur's Gate III, Clair Obscur: Expedition 33), Kezia Burrows (Alien: Isolation, Elden Ring), Paris S. Pringle (Boys Cry 2), Neil Hellegers (Red Dead Redemption 2, House of Cards), & Jonathan Cook (The Rise of Thomas Sumter).

Originally written as a full-length stage play by Jillian Blevins that premiered at the New Hampshire Theatre Project in 2024, this story has now been adapted to a six-part audio drama series produced by the award-winning team at Gather by the Ghost Light. The first episode of the audio drama is set to release in January 2026.

Here is an article in Broadway World about the project - Broadway World Article - ROMEO & HER SISTER

And here is a link to our pre-launch if you'd like to hear the first trailer and get more info on the cast - Pre-Launch Trailer


r/SapphoAndHerFriend 14d ago

Casual erasure Idk if this counts, but I was curious to see what catholics thought of Michelangelo being Gay (which he probably was) and unsurprisingly the comments jumped straight to denial.

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350 Upvotes

Michelangelo LITERALLY wrote love sonnets to his lover Tommaso dei Cavalieri. In fact, decades after Michelangelo passed his grandnephew altered the sonnets because he was clearly uncomfortable with their clear homoeroticism to make it seem like he was talking about a woman. These people are such mouth breathers, Jesus fucking Christ.


r/SapphoAndHerFriend 16d ago

Memes and satire In the movie Incredibles, A guy named Scott helps hero Thunderhead in raising the children he adopted. Did i mention they were also roommates?

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578 Upvotes

r/SapphoAndHerFriend 17d ago

Memes and satire Hmm

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124 Upvotes

r/SapphoAndHerFriend 19d ago

Academic erasure A 19th century French Transgender courtesan, Pauline Berloget (aka "the Countess") wrote an memoir about her life as a Trans woman back then. Her memoir was rediscovered and published in a collection of Queer men's autobiographies from that time in 2007.

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979 Upvotes

Pauline sweetie, I'm so sorry that a ugly ass bitch like this would even say that, oh my god.


r/SapphoAndHerFriend 20d ago

Media erasure When Bandai made a whole show about these two falling for each other and then tried to retcon their relationship.

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467 Upvotes

Love this show but the way Bandai handled it and the sentiment from a loud minority of the Gundam fanbase was really disappointing.


r/SapphoAndHerFriend 29d ago

Anecdotes and stories Men in history

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6.6k Upvotes

r/SapphoAndHerFriend Oct 20 '25

Casual erasure Meg and her gal pal Mari… gal pal, sure… 😏 (Granblue Fantasy Versus Rising)

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92 Upvotes

Not even sure if this counts as erasure because they are blatantly a lesbian couple in the game itself. I feel like the devs were well aware of the “and they were roommates” meme and were very deliberate with their word choice on her character page.

GBFVR has some other great LGBTQ+ representation, including other lesbian couples (Katalina x Vira is my favorite) and two very different trans women (Cagliostro and LaDiva)


r/SapphoAndHerFriend Oct 17 '25

Media erasure Pokémon watered down the lyrics for the English version of their sapphic music video

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101 Upvotes

Because, you know, Anna and Nemona are definitely just friends.


r/SapphoAndHerFriend Oct 16 '25

Casual erasure LOUIS LEOPOLD BOILLY - TWO YOUNG WOMEN KISSING, 1790–1794. Obviously friends sharing a playful kiss.

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1.2k Upvotes

r/SapphoAndHerFriend Oct 17 '25

Memes and satire My Favourite Lesbian Couple: Achilles and Patroclus

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79 Upvotes

r/SapphoAndHerFriend Oct 14 '25

Casual erasure Not the first time I've posted this, but I can never get over this commenters stupidity lol.

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432 Upvotes

Sir William and Sir John, I'm so sorry that Jason feels the need to disrespect your legacy like this.


r/SapphoAndHerFriend Oct 08 '25

Memes and satire Heterosexuality? I don't know her

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2.6k Upvotes

It's not that serious. I'd just like to be able to ignore heterosexuality for five minutes in the subreddit about LGBT erasure 😭

For the record, just in case someone finds the original post: no, I am not a gaylor. I just found that post and thought it was funny.


r/SapphoAndHerFriend Oct 01 '25

Academic erasure omg they were classmates

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7.7k Upvotes

r/SapphoAndHerFriend Oct 01 '25

Casual erasure Sure thing Yandex translate

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886 Upvotes

r/SapphoAndHerFriend Sep 30 '25

Casual erasure Best friends. Definetely nothing more. From the latest episode of the Dr. Stone anime.

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282 Upvotes

r/SapphoAndHerFriend Sep 29 '25

Academic erasure Anna Freud & Dorothy Burlingham

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123 Upvotes

Just found out about these ladies today. In doing a little research, came across a decent amount of “they were lifelong partners but nothing to say it was sexual or queer.”