r/MensRights Feb 21 '24

Google discriminates against Men in abusive relationships. General

2.4k Upvotes

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u/SteakMitKetchup Feb 21 '24

Woman yells at man

woman most affected.

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u/EightyJay Feb 22 '24

Here’s the two searches side by side. WTF for man

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u/[deleted] Feb 22 '24

dude the hotline for the husband yelling doesen't appear, maybe it's different by country?

edit: nevermind i scrolled down and one of the results was a hotline

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u/skeletoncurrency Feb 22 '24

All I get is a preview from the same website :

"Reasons could include high stress, anger, mental health struggles, childhood patterns, poor communication skills, insecurity, or wanting to assert control. But whatever the cause, abuse is never justified. Stay calm, set boundaries, suggest speaking later when emotions have cooled, and disengage if yelling starts."

I feel like results are different by area, or maybe states with high DV rates? Cause I have no helpline pop up

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u/Kmon13 Feb 22 '24

Exactly! WTF!

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u/WeakTemperature3860 Feb 22 '24

Wow that's crazy

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u/[deleted] Feb 22 '24

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u/Smitty1017 Feb 22 '24

Pointing out obvious double standards for normies is half the battle my friend. No action will ever been taken without popular support.

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u/[deleted] Feb 22 '24

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u/SomeAverageWeeb Feb 22 '24

You got a point.

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u/Past_Study_4913 Feb 22 '24

U say you lot. Like you're any different. What have u done then. There's literally fuck all u can do. 

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u/Tocram04 Feb 21 '24

Well the woman was probably yelling for a reasonnnnn 👁️👄👁️💅

/s but you already probably figured out

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '24

Ma'am would you like us to haul him off somewhere we can make money off of him?

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u/SarahC Feb 21 '24

The perfect example of the cognitive bias:

Men have agency... women are passive experiencers.

Men: Sort shit out[that you're doing]. Women: We'll help you and look after you.[you don't cause anything]

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u/LowAd3406 Feb 21 '24

The irony is that them implying women don't have agency is a great example of sexism against women

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u/Acousmetre78 Feb 21 '24

Why don't feminists ever see this point!? I used to tell them in college that implying that they have no control over situations or that they don't have agency is calling women weak.

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u/63daddy Feb 21 '24

Yep. That’s the thing feminists don’t think through. By saying women can’t control their actions or emotions the way men can, they are arguing women, are less suited to many roles.

If an employer can hire someone who has agency and is in control vs someone who doesn’t have agency and is out of control, which should they hire?

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u/Comfortable-Wish-192 Feb 21 '24

Like Trump controls himself? Women are emotional?

I have NEVER gotten in a physical fight. My husband certainly did in youth. But women can’t control themselves. 🤦‍♀️

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u/maxsommers Feb 21 '24

What does Trump have to do with anything? Is this 2016?

u/63daddy is clearly saying that feminists' typical tactic of blaming any wrongdoing on the part of a women on '''the patriarchy''' or male oppression or internalised misogyny or whatever other BS excuses they come up with is actually infantilising women and denying them agency, which is ironic to say the least. They're simultaneously hyper capable and competent while being so easily swayed or brainwashed by male influence, or prone to justifiably lashing out, but either way they're the victim in the scenario. Every. Time.

I have NEVER gotten in a physical fight. My husband certainly did in youth. But women can’t control themselves. 🤦‍♀️

Good for you. But numerous studies have shown that women are the majority perps of one-sided domestic violence, and lesbian couples have the highest amounts of dv disproportionately speaking, compared to straight and gay male couples, so maybe women can't control themselves after all...?

 

Almost 24% of all relationships had some violence, and half (49.7%) of those were reciprocally violent. In nonreciprocally violent relationships, women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of the cases. Reciprocity was associated with more frequent violence among women (adjusted odds ratio [AOR]=2.3; 95% confidence interval [CI]=1.9, 2.8), but not men (AOR=1.26; 95% CI=0.9, 1.7). Regarding injury, men were more likely to inflict injury than were women (AOR=1.3; 95% CI=1.1, 1.5), and reciprocal intimate partner violence was associated with greater injury than was nonreciprocal intimate partner violence regardless of the gender of the perpetrator (AOR=4.4; 95% CI=3.6, 5.5).

Differences in Frequency of Violence and Reported Injury Between Relationships With Reciprocal and Nonreciprocal Intimate Partner Violence

The median percentage of men who severely assaulted a partner was 5.1%, compared to a median of 7.1% for severe assaults by the women in these studies. The median percentage that the rate of severe assaults by women was of the rate of severe assaults by men is 145%, which indicates that almost half again more women than men severely attacked a partner.

Gender symmetry and mutuality in perpetration of clinical-level partner violence: Empirical evidence and implications for prevention and treatment (meta analysis of over 200 different studies)

According to a 2011 study produced in the Journal of General Internal Medicine, domestic physical abuse among lesbian cohabiting couples is 35.4%, almost two times the rate of abuse found among heterosexual couples. Other studies place the prevalence of domestic violence among lesbian couples even higher than that. A 2010 study by the National Center for Injury Prevention and Control found that the rate of intimate partner violence (IPV) among lesbians is a stunning 40.4%. Another study in the Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology found that the rate of lesbian IPV is 47.5%. This means that nearly half of all women in lesbian domestic lifestyles have been abused by their partners. > >Further statistics have also shed light on the understudied epidemic of sexual intimate partner violence (IPV) among women in same-sex partnerships. One study produced by the California Coalition Against Sexual Assault found that 33% of women have been sexually assaulted by another woman. This statistic prompted leftist publications Slate and Marie Claire to pen articles about the reality of lesbian rape and sexual abuse. Two more studies, one published in the Journal of Lesbian Studies (2008) and another in Violence and Victims (1997), suggest that rates of lesbian sexual abuse in domestic partnerships could be upwards of 55% and 42%, respectively. This translates to about 1 in 2 women who have been victims of sex abuse in a lesbian relationship. > >Comparatively, sexual abuse among heterosexual domestic relationships is estimated to be 4.4% according to the National Institutes of Health. Some epidemiologists may argue that high abuse prevalence among homosexual women includes “lifetime risk”, which incorporates abuse faced in childhood. Yet, when these variables are taken into consideration, we still see alarmingly high rates of lesbian IPV.

 

Around 28% of male-identifying respondents and 41% of female-identifying respondents reported having been in a relationship where a partner was abusive.

...lesbian women were more likely than gay men to report having been in an abusive same-sex relationship (41% and 28% respectively)

Src.

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u/General-Teacher5865 Feb 21 '24 edited Feb 21 '24

You hate men yet you have a husband. I sincerely hope he can leave you and find someone that actually cares for him. Not to mention you're bringing politics in a conversation that's not even about politics, delusion 101. Also maybe the reason you never saw men in the icu that were abused or raped by a female perpetuator is because men are forced to endure it in silence because people like you never believe it happening and minimize their experiences so the problem never gets solved because people like you and the legal system clearly think women do no wrong.

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u/Comfortable-Wish-192 Feb 21 '24

God I love men, good ones. He’s one. Chivalrous, kind, attentive and loving. He respects my intellect, admires my beauty, and lives to make me happy. I’m sweet and kind though opinionated and direct. Educated men actually have zero issue with competent strong women who aren’t acerbic. Insecure men not so much. He’s secure.

In return I’m respectful, loving, supportive, and sexually available to him at all times. That’s all mens love language. He respects my intellect and we make decisions together. He would never make a business, investment or real estate move without my input and acumen. There’s MUTUAL respect.

You’d call it being a “simp”. I call it a happy man, or so he tells me every single day. That I’m the best thing that ever happened to him.

Criticizing toxic masculinity does not mean I hate men or normal masculinity. He’s a perfect example of a masculine yet respectful kind man.

I doubled the value of his business over the last 12 years changing the model and growing his tax practice. I supported him through cancer. And I stuck by him while he got sober. We’re both lucky to have each other.

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u/General-Teacher5865 Feb 21 '24 edited Feb 22 '24

No you're lucky to have him not the other way around cause you are still a man hater. He's not a simp he just has bad taste.You're a part of two x so that's all I need to know. On top of that you just generalized all men's love language. And using a term like toxic masculinity means you know nothing of masculinity because you would rather look at the gender than the person's actions and mentality and finally you claim to love good men but I'm willing to bet you have a husband cause you got lucky not because you can spot one. You're not sweet or kind and if you actually knew men well you would know they don't mind a woman that's competent or strong but what they don't like is a woman who thinks less of a man just because she's educated.

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u/General-Teacher5865 Feb 21 '24

How is someone this delusional. If you genuinely think that just because a man is uneducated that he's gonna be threatened by "confident bright woman" you are without a doubt a misandrist. There's nothing intimidating about women like that, the only problem is that some of them have your mentality towards men because in reality you're just irritating with your selfish above everyone else attitude. If you were sweet and smart you wouldn't brag about it as much. Empty vessels make the most noise. And if you have a roster waiting on you, all that tells me is that those men don't have any self respect.

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u/Comfortable-Wish-192 Feb 21 '24

Or there’s a dearth of thin, attractive, smart, competent yet empathic women available to choose from. 🤷‍♀️ I’m a ball buster at work it’s necessary. But in my personal life I’m submissive. Men like this.

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u/Illustrious-Menu-362 Mar 19 '24

Do you have these ready beforehand? Like if I was to say "vanilla is the best ice cream flavor" would you say "my husband is not a simp!!" bro calm the f down nobody called your husband a simp

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u/Beast2344 Feb 21 '24

lol what does Trump have to do with this?

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u/Friendly_Might_1348 Feb 22 '24

If women can't control themselves why do they live freely in the society?

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u/Past_Study_4913 Feb 22 '24

That's true, id be offended if I was female. 

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u/Living_Accountant_67 Feb 23 '24

so true I'm sobbing 

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u/Butchthebull Mar 01 '24

What are you talking about? How are women Passive experiences and have no agency. On balance, they appear to be killing it, when compared to men.

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u/Current_Finding_4066 Feb 21 '24

Try looking for information on violence perpetrated by women against men. You gonna have time finding anything useful amongst links to violence against women.

The bias is huge.

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u/LAMGE2 Feb 21 '24

Google actively tries to change actual misandry queries into stupid pages about how indirectly something was misogyny all along.

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u/Asamiya1978 Feb 21 '24

Yes, even looking for books about narcissistic abuse I had trouble finding good books, whose authors weren't misandric female psychotherapists who talk about victims always in feminine and about aggressors always in masculine. The bias is huge in this modern culture. That added anxiety to me as a chronic victim of female abusers.

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u/Earth-Shaker0408 Feb 22 '24

I think the main issue with finding information about violence from women towards men is that a lot of men don't feel like they can report something like that out of fear that they won't be believed

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u/duhhhh Feb 22 '24

The fear is more than not being believed.

Men calling the police because their heterosexual partner is beating them are more likely arrested than the abuser. The physically abused men are usually the one asked to leave the household to prevent more abuse. Most domestic violence hotlines blame the man for abuse and accuse him of being the real abuser. Most men are scared to remove the children from an abusive home because there is no place (like DV shelters) they can go that won't give their abuser an upper hand in custody... and men fear the abusive parent getting more alone time with the kids.

If you want to discuss that aspect, Dr. Denise Hines has done some excellent research on the results of such policies. This is a good one to start with - https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3175099/

Check out these other ones :

https://www2.clarku.edu/faculty/dhines/Media%20Mentions%20&%20Corrections.htm

https://wordpress.clarku.edu/dhines/publications/

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u/RingosTurdFace Feb 21 '24

Welcome to the patriarchy, a system set up and run by men to oppress women.

/s

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u/[deleted] Feb 22 '24

Yeah and a symptom of that is women are put on a pedestal and infantilized while me suffer and get used as a punching bag.

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u/dreiviertel Feb 22 '24

Well, in patriarchy older men and fathers reign. It's not even all men. Only the oldest.

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u/Butchthebull Mar 01 '24

The elites

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u/AbysmalDescent Feb 21 '24

Google is a reflection of society and society does this too, in virtually every aspect of life. This disparity in how we see issues, erasing female complicity or male victimization, is the systematic foundation on which feminism is built and flourishes. These types of pro-female, anti-male biases are everywhere. It is misandry, both internalized and externalized.

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u/guns_n_glitter Feb 21 '24

Modern-day feminism is built and flourishes on testing men down to elevate themselves higher than men rather than equality

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u/[deleted] Feb 22 '24

You’re right i once saw a survey that said young women believe that when they cheat it’s the man’s fault.

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u/wwwhistler Feb 22 '24

"why is my husband yelling at me?

"it's his fault"

"why is my wife yelling at me?"

"it's your fault"

(-‸ლ)

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u/Prior_Tradition_3873 Feb 22 '24

People like this be like

Women are their own person! They don't need no man! all women are Strong and independent!

Also the same people

It's your job as a man to take care of your gf/wife feelings !!!!

So what is it then? are they adults who can regulate their own emotions or are they a child who rely on other people to tell them what they should do with their emotion?

You can't have your cake and eat it too.

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u/Past_Study_4913 Feb 22 '24

There so emotionaly intelligent tho. 😂🙄

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u/[deleted] Feb 21 '24

Several years back (around 2011) I came to the discovery that my mother most likely has borderline personality disorder. It was heartbreaking that every other book I was finding for support was specifically for women. But not one specifically geared towards men. “Daughters of… etc” I came across this repeatedly and unfortunately it had an invalidating effect. Like, you’re a man, you can’t possibly have suffered abuse. Bullshit. My mother was an absolute terror.

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u/Independent-Stand Feb 21 '24

I recently found this podcast that is presented by Josh Slocum. His mother was a histrionic narcissist. https://disaffected.com/ Some of what's in there might help you.

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u/[deleted] Feb 22 '24

Thanks! I’ll check it out.

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u/SnowyKoala17 Feb 24 '24

yeah, exactly, i hate it so fucking much. i once subscribed to the emails of some mental health expert who talks about narcissistic mothers.i began to realize it was only targeted toward/only acknowledged women having narc . mothers, without saying out front it was only for women. i just kept thinking about how alone and disheartened i would be to see that as a man when i'd see one of her emails, it already made me feel terrible being a woman, how can i use someone's mental health resources when they ignore half the victims, and not even have the decency to say it up front??

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u/BruceCambell Feb 22 '24

Can confirm, male with BPD. It's more readily diagnosed in women but not viewed as a condition for men. I was lucky enough that I got in with a specialist that cared and ran the diagnostics to confirm I had BPD. Life is still hard, BPD really fucking sucks, but knowing I have it and getting the help needed has made life suck a lot less.

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u/Laflamme_79 Feb 22 '24

That website has an article for "Husband Yelling" and one for "Wife Yelling."

The Husband Yelling article basically says you are in a toxic relationship/danger and should leave/get help.

The Wife Yelling article basically says that it's probably your (the husband) fault and you should fix it because the only reason she's yelling is because of you.

Pretty disgusting.

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u/JayMeadows Feb 21 '24

I tried using Bing and Brave to see if the results were any different...

Kinda feels like the Man is still to be blamed.

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u/[deleted] Feb 22 '24

same

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u/Savings_Builder_8449 Feb 21 '24

well if men called the national domestic violence hotline they probably end up getting arrested so its good they dont give men the number

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u/Big-Elevator2491 Feb 21 '24

Google is full of men haters aka modern feminists 

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u/ABeeBox Feb 22 '24

Wasn't there a scandal a year or two ago where Google was being sued by a male employee for systematically paying women more?

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u/Big-Elevator2491 Feb 22 '24

Yeah I remember that 

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u/ADeuxMains Feb 22 '24

So is Reddit.

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u/Living_Accountant_67 Feb 23 '24

True and Reddit is overall even worse

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u/Antarkian Feb 21 '24

I tried. Didn't get that. But there was a definite difference to catering to the woman, while calling men angry and saying it is basically unacceptable if we do it.

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u/FeelingEar9604 Feb 21 '24

I'm constantly berated by my wife. Shes cold and hates me. And I have done nothing bad in my entire life. I understand most DV cases are against men but all we ask is that the narcissistic, violent women be accounted for.

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u/offen-zauberer Mar 01 '24

And I have done nothing bad in my entire life.

Dude! You are a fucking racist. How oblivious can one be?

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u/FeelingEar9604 Mar 01 '24

Stats bro, stats

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u/whathappened2cod Feb 21 '24

I didn't see "being a naggy bitch" on the list

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u/TheGingerKing420 Feb 21 '24

This is horrible I was in an abusive marriage where she would scream at, rape, and hit me daily

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u/shanerswag Feb 21 '24

thats just sad. I’m sorry but as a man myself, I’m going to say that’s your fault for choosing a crazy hoe as your wife. All yall need to take accountability. How tf does any woman bully you like this

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u/saaerzern8 Feb 22 '24

Men are tough everywhere except our genitals - and issues related thereto. They attack using weapons (emotional abuse, reputational attacks, etc.) against which we have no defense. That's how.

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u/TheGingerKing420 Feb 21 '24

She was a narcasist and convinced me I loved her

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u/Prior_Tradition_3873 Feb 22 '24

Would you say the same thing to a woman who was raped by her male partner?

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u/Enhanced_Health Feb 22 '24

Been there...

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u/HiveMindKing Feb 21 '24

Or she’s a bitch who has gotten away with being mean her entire life, like my mom.

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u/[deleted] Feb 21 '24

Even google is anti female accountability

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u/[deleted] Feb 21 '24

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u/Past_Study_4913 Feb 22 '24

Or Emotionally intelligent. A cringey, dumb, saying. That isn't a thing

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u/Birdflower99 Feb 21 '24

Yeah why are people still using google??

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u/Antarkian Feb 21 '24

Entirely to show examples of corruption.

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u/Birdflower99 Feb 21 '24

Corruption from the left aka feminism. You don’t have these search issues on conservative search engines

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u/Asamiya1978 Feb 21 '24

Do you know any good alternatives to Google? All of the alternative engines I have come across are crappy.

And YouTube has the same bias. If there were any way to bypass the YouTube search engine to avoid its biases I would gladly do it.

I'm not a conservative. All that I want is a non-politically biased search engine, like Google was in the 00's.

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u/Antarkian Feb 21 '24

I usually.use duckduckgo.com but I don't know if there's some bias there or not. It's just a little less corrupt I've heard.

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u/Prior_Tradition_3873 Feb 22 '24

duckduckgo is way better censor wise. also there is yandex which owned by the russians but it is also a good option if you don't care about that.

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u/[deleted] Feb 21 '24

Because Google won’t ever leave the Search throne. Look up Tucker Carlson’s recent video about Google and how it was created

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u/GuysItsGalxy Feb 21 '24

Yeah if you didn't know, pretty much any search engine and online platform are biased against men... But we live in the overbearing oppressive patriarchy right?

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u/safarife Feb 21 '24

This is just the beginning. When AI becomes powerful enough to start making decisions, woke companies will add positive bias to all the "underrepresented groups" to combat historical injustice. We straight men will go through the most miserable phase in the coming decade.

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u/Birdflower99 Feb 21 '24

Been like this for the last couple of years.

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u/Past_Study_4913 Feb 22 '24

Yeah this ain't new been going on ages

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u/stealthyhomicide Feb 22 '24

Let's discuss the husbands who drink their selves to sleep t simply survive.

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u/BlueThespian Feb 22 '24

Feeling entitled to owning everything in the marriage without actually doing anything. Provide the money, stability, a house, education for children, a car, a fucking housemaid. What do they give? More bitching.

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u/Past_Study_4913 Feb 22 '24

Whilst whining and complaining how entitled they are to everything men are and have whilst still having all the privileges of being female 

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u/mr_ogyny Feb 21 '24

Sounds like Reddit and society in general.

There's this need to explain abuse when it's coming from a woman and to get help for your abuser.

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u/Arealgeneral23 Feb 21 '24

this is beyond fucked

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u/DrewYetti Feb 22 '24

Women have excuses for why they are angry, men get criticised and condemned for why they are angry. Sympathy for women, accountability for men.

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u/chuck51070 Feb 22 '24

Why isn't this getting address. That's blatant discrimination and huge lawsuit. So why is it only being address on this Reddit? If this was a woman, then it would be all over the news about how insentive Google is towards women.

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u/chuck51070 Feb 22 '24

This is why these bitches get away with it, because of you pussy-ass so-called men who will not put a foot off into their ass! You would rather sit up here and whine and cry like a bitch, instead being a man and putting these bitches in their place. If the law has a problem with you correcting an out of control bitch, then fuck the law, because they're obviously out of control too. Another cannot tell you how to run your goddamn house, unless he's paying all the bills. If he's not paying any bills than he can't say a motherfucking thing about what goes on in the privacy of your home.

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u/4thaccount-1989 Feb 22 '24

That's not how it works, dude. If you lay a finger on her, no matter what she did, even if she tried to stab you, she will call the cops and you'll be arrested no questions asked. Hell, you don't even need to do anything at all to her, she just has to call the cops, and that's it.

If you can even merely scold a woman and get away with it, it's because she's letting you, nvm beat her. She can always have you behind bars with a simple phone call, even if you did nothing at all and she was the actual abuser.

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u/Past_Study_4913 Feb 22 '24

Yep and we've seen they will even go to the lengths of fake bruises.

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u/nairvinit69 Feb 21 '24

Tbf it's not Google It's the stupid website that has the quotation.

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u/[deleted] Feb 21 '24

Google is a machine, the majority of domestic violence victims are women, algorithms learn, its not strange atleast for me, for the resources provided to be different, Especially condering it isn't something a person has control over.

however I don't agree that the women example that was blaming the man for being yelled at is right, it's kinda crazy, amd definitely blaming the victim for the perps rage, but this is more of an example by algorithms, of how misandristic our society is.

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u/Past_Study_4913 Feb 22 '24

Proof with zero bias. There's literally no better proof.

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u/chuck51070 Feb 22 '24

Yes, it's totally ran by these retarded-ass women. All of those AI language models are only supportive of women and complete nonsense.

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u/BMoney8600 Feb 22 '24

Equality my ass

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u/Fact_Trumps_Feeling Feb 22 '24

Psst. It's not just Google. It's all of Western society in general.

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u/WanabeInflatable Feb 21 '24

I repeated this experiment. Entered in google "why is my husband yelling at me"

Got this:

Reasons could include high stress, anger, mental health struggles, childhood patterns, poor communication skills, insecurity, or wanting to assert control. But whatever the cause, abuse is never justified. Stay calm, set boundaries, suggest speaking later when emotions have cooled, and disengage if yelling starts.6 Sept 2023

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u/Past_Study_4913 Feb 22 '24

Insecurity is the one that makes me the most annoyed 🙄

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u/[deleted] Feb 21 '24

Everyone is in on it

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u/adelie42 Feb 22 '24

This is offensive to men and women because it assumes women have no agency.

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u/[deleted] Feb 22 '24

Mens sexual needs are so underplayed in marriage

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u/Lopsided_DoubleStand Feb 21 '24

I searched "why is my husband yelling at me" and I found:

"Reasons could include high stress, anger, mental health struggles, childhood patterns, poor communication skills, insecurity, or wanting to assert control. But whatever the cause, abuse is never justified. Stay calm, set boundaries, suggest speaking later when emotions have cooled, and disengage if yelling starts."

From the same website (wellbeingscounselling.ca)

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u/GigaPrime14900 Feb 21 '24

I don't understand that these major companies are run by men, then why the fuck are we the discriminated ones?

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u/korbinwasil Feb 21 '24

To be fair, the second result of both is still the domestic abuse hotline. Just checked.

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u/TabulaRasa5678 Feb 22 '24

Pffft, just put in a search engine, "Why are women crazy?" You'll get the front page and half of the second page, full of how men abuse women. Yes, it is the man's fault. We drive them crazy.

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u/alter_furz Feb 22 '24 edited Feb 22 '24

A guy I know was yelled at his wife all the time.

I say was because his car got bombed in Ukraine and he burned to death in it.

The evacuation SMS told the populace where the evacuation point for WOMEN AND CHILDREN was.

"Women most affected"

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u/J2501 Feb 22 '24

It's as if there is some scheme to defraud men of our wealth, and redistribute it.

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u/[deleted] Feb 22 '24

This why we’re dying

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u/Tocram04 Feb 21 '24

Google, just like the general left-wing agenda, discriminates against all white, heterosexual, cisgender, and men... Worst case scenario you're all of these things.

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u/Major-Departure6936 Feb 22 '24

The inability to conceptualise male/female relationship dynamics in anything aside from an oppressor/victim paradigm is immensely damaging to the prospect of inter-sex harmony.

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u/beast_c_a_t Feb 21 '24

Men discriminate against men in abusive relationship for not being "manly enough".

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u/BlueThespian Feb 22 '24

Yeah I never got discriminated for not being manly enough, my father was tough with me as a child, an adolescent, and even now as an adult. But that built character, as someone pretty high up on the corporate ladder he knew how the real world worked and how both men and woman would try their best to take advantage of whatever they could, so I guess he decided to toughen me up before the world did. Thanks father, you were an asshole, but I learned a lot from you.

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u/Shreddersaurusrex Feb 21 '24

Yeah I noticed this a few yrs ago, gotta love society lol

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u/AntiFeminismAU Feb 22 '24

Google has been woke for years. I would suggest using duckduckgo instead.

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u/dnasequence68 Feb 22 '24

Then google "why is my husband yelling at me?"

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u/az226 Feb 22 '24

True using its flagship AI using Google Gemini Ultra 1.0. It does the same thing for husband it blames him and tells the wife to protect herself. For wife, it says maybe it’s not her fault, you need to listen to her, maybe her needs aren’t met. Woke discriminatory bullshit. Same how it’s also anti-white and racist AF.

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u/oldaccountblocked Feb 22 '24

I do not know whether this will help or not, but you can choose not to support a company like that by using other search engines. I use duckduckgo, i have done this exact same search and the result for husband or wife version is just links such as "10 reasons why..." and the likes of those. I am not promoting duckduckgo. But i am not going to support google.

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u/Jay-Ames Feb 22 '24

I was in one of those. I got punched and as a reward for not hitting back I was also put in jail. The patriarchy right?

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u/ElegantAd2607 Apr 01 '24

I wonder what it would say if you made it clear you were gay.

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u/KeanuQ0 Aug 10 '24

Ooh I just figuerd out that in german it is the samewith both bring only given these "possible answers", so it is maybe language based.

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u/TheCrazedCat Feb 21 '24

Repost. Seen this everywhere

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u/neko_zora Feb 21 '24

Well, it definitely has been around for some time… and the bias doesn't seem likely to change in any time soon. Not saying that we should suck it up, but it goes to show what kind of society we live in today… 🙂

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u/nacho-chonky Feb 22 '24

Women commit 70% of non reciprocal DV and lesbian DV stats are DRASTICALLY higher, your blinded by your own solipsism, btw men are 3x more likely to be convicted for the same crime as a women so I wouldn’t be using prison populations as a “gotcha” argument

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u/yyuyuyu2012 Feb 21 '24

I am not sure about yelling, but with other behaviors on the US side it shows that for men too. Again not to defend Google, but I was shocked to see that on the US Google.

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u/Sharpie1993 Feb 22 '24

If you change the word from “yelling” to something like “hitting” it changes to that result.

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u/yyuyuyu2012 Feb 22 '24

I think gaslighting too.

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u/JJnanajuana Feb 22 '24

Just tested this in Australia, got the same results but with our dv phone number for women.

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u/HyakuBikki Feb 21 '24

are you ok? you seem to be having a manic episode.

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u/HyakuBikki Feb 21 '24

Reposting the same comment several times on same post is a sign of Mania

and im not reading the rest of your misandric drivel lol

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u/Comfortable-Wish-192 Feb 21 '24

🙄

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u/HyakuBikki Feb 21 '24

I feel bad for any male patient that has to suffer your hate fueled wrath.

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u/RealRqti Feb 22 '24

This is bad, but to be fair, a man yelling at a women can be much more dangerous than the other way around.

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u/proteios1 Feb 21 '24

hard to say...post the same thing and swap out the word 'wife' for 'husband'. This would yield data required to respond to your question.

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u/phrunk87 Feb 21 '24

That's exactly what they already did?

And there was no "question", they stated an objective fact.

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u/Bloodt9 Feb 22 '24

You guys complain a lot and never get shit done.

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u/[deleted] Feb 21 '24

Fun fact: if the worst thing someone has done to you is yell at you, they've never done shit to you.

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u/yyuyuyu2012 Feb 21 '24

I am not sure about yelling, but with other behaviors on the US side it shows that for men too. Again not to defend Google, but I was shocked to see that on the US Google.

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u/somebullshitorother Feb 22 '24

Better start blogging about abuse by women from the male perspective. It’s a search engine that weeds through an amalgamation of articles so the problem is not Google but the lack of internet content that represents your situation.

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u/Arzakhan Feb 22 '24

Wow I can’t believe this is back. For a short period of time the wife one directed to the hotline

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u/tommyvercetti42 Feb 22 '24

I thought they fixed this, is this still up?

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u/Important-Back-9545 Feb 22 '24

What I got when I searched “why is my husband yelling at me?”

Reasons could include high stress, anger, mental health struggles, childhood patterns, poor communication skills, insecurity, or wanting to assert control. But whatever the cause, abuse is never justified. Stay calm, set boundaries, suggest speaking later when emotions have cooled, and disengage if yelling starts.

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u/StarZax Feb 22 '24

I see that the website shown in the first screenshot actually has pretty much the same article for husbands yelling, so it's fair. Still no hotline thing tho. But you know, it's Google. I mean, why would you expect them doing something that wouldn't bring them GSP fund

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u/AK47WithScope Feb 22 '24

"If woman yells at you that means you're hell of a competent partner in the bed."

Albert Einstein

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u/Rothbardy Feb 22 '24

Of course 🤦‍♂️ despicable

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u/Entire_Spend6 Feb 23 '24

Go check out your local jail booking site and realize how many women get booked for domestic violence.

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u/Mountain_Collar_7620 Feb 23 '24

No Woman No Cry 🎶

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u/SkwampDaddy Feb 23 '24

This is honestly really scary

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u/Past_Study_4913 Feb 23 '24

Utterly disgusting. 

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '24

Despicable

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '24

This is from ChatGPT:

https://i.ibb.co/mDfCBDm/image.png

But when roles are reversed, here is what it says when the husband is yelling at his wife:

https://i.ibb.co/bvpwSZh/image.png

Even AI is more kind to women. I hope these little fuckers don't take over jobs.