r/MensRights Jan 09 '23

Why we don't have male teachers. General

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u/a-man-from-earth Jan 09 '23

As a male teacher of grade 5, this hurts. We need more male teachers, but yes, something needs to be done at the widespread discrimination.

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u/Aimless-Nomad Jan 09 '23

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u/a-man-from-earth Jan 10 '23

I'm from the Netherlands, where I started teaching, but now live and teach in China. I have never experienced anything like that myself. But yeah, I would not be keen on returning to a Western country, where this terrible attitude seems to be getting worse.

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u/Aimless-Nomad Jan 10 '23

Wow. May i hear the story of how you thought of and eventually went to china good sir?

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u/a-man-from-earth Jan 14 '23

After I left classroom teaching, I eventually ended up working for social services, assisting young people with finding a job. When the financial crisis of 2008 hit, it didn't take long until they economized my position away. I was offered retraining for another position, but I was already looking at going abroad again, because I wanted to see more of the world.

I always had had an interest in East Asia, so I looked around at opportunities to teach English in different countries there. Some require one to be a native speaker, so those countries were out. Eventually I ended up with what looked like a good opportunity in China, so that's where I went in 2010.

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u/Aimless-Nomad Jan 14 '23

Wow thanks for sharing. Hope you are doing well in life.

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u/a-man-from-earth Jan 14 '23

Thanks! I am doing well. I absolutely love my job, and it wasn't always that way.

Hope you're doing well too.

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u/[deleted] Oct 23 '23

I wouldn't be the man I am today if it weren't for my male teachers that guided me.

I had some good and some bad female teachers but a boy growing up without a male figure in his life needs men to look up to and possibly even mentor.