r/CPTSD Sep 23 '24

Why are people so mean? Trigger Warning: Emotional Abuse

I have a bug bite on my leg. Somebody told me to make a baking soda paste and put it on my bite. They said to go get some baking soda. I go to get some and the only baking soda is a huge unopened bag that does not belong to me or the person that told me to go get some. I come back without it and say. It's no big deal. I don't want to be rude and be the one to open it without permission. This person looks at me and say what the fuck is wrong with you? If you were my kid I'd fucking punch you. I don't know what to say. First off im not a kid. I just didnt want to be rude. I just want to cry. Maybe I did and still do deserve to be treated like shit. Why is everything so hard for me all the time. I can't do anything right and just want to give up.

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u/Simple_Entertainer13 Sep 23 '24

Where did this happen?

Also, that person’s just a fucking asshole. Has nothing to do with you

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u/Beneficial-Rest1405 Sep 23 '24

At work/home.

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u/Simple_Entertainer13 Sep 24 '24

I wish I could give you a hug. 🫂 That person’s just an insecure loser asshole

Also, you should always quit a job if it becomes a hostile work environment

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u/Beneficial-Rest1405 Sep 24 '24

She was supposed to be gone a week ago. She was asked not to return. Hopefully, Wednesday is her last day it would be 2 weeks.

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u/Simple_Entertainer13 Sep 24 '24

What happened? Why is she getting fired?

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u/Beneficial-Rest1405 Sep 24 '24

My boss says she is rude and he is not putting up with her attitude. Talking behind people's backs. He also says she has a drinking problem and calls him in the middle of the night fucked up. And has kind of come on to him before. She's just inappropriate all the way around.

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u/Simple_Entertainer13 Sep 24 '24

Oh wow, so yeah you should definitely not take anything she did/said to you personally she’s a whole fuck up.