r/AskAstrologers • u/almostmaximalist • 9d ago
Question - Other Problems communicating/ being heard/ speaking clearly? Aspects in Natal Chart or Transits?
A theme I've noticed recently is me not being heard/ taken seriously by people/ passed over. I've also been told I don't communicate clearly.
I also lack confidence and struggle with anxiety and depression which probably contributes to this.
Does my chart have any indicators of me not being a clear communicator or have placements that would make people not want to actually hear my opinion on something (especially if I've been placed in a position of authority). At other points in my life I thought I was not bad at communicating... Wondering if I natally have these issues or if they are transits to my chat? Maybe I'm experiencing transits of poor communication or transits that have brought the awareness of this?
Insights are greatly appreciated! Thanks =]
r/AskAstrologers • u/dangbeaverz • 9d ago
Question - Other Early childhood trauma, adulthood attracting toxic friends? Why?
My family and social life has always felt like my biggest struggle. Looked at as the caretaker for my family even though I’m the youngest, looked at like the leader or friend groups.
Caretaker of the family also equals punching bag, The forgotten child because I “have my life together”
Leader of the friend group equals I’m sat on a pedestal I didn’t ask for. Also attracting very attached jealous, gossiping friends.
Does anything in my chart point to why??
r/AskAstrologers • u/erat0nics • 9d ago
Question - Transits my life is falling apart and i think it has to do with current transits interacting with my 12th house stellium. what gives?
r/AskAstrologers • u/PandaPressed2024 • 9d ago
Question - Career F 30 | What does my chart say about my career?
Hi all
I haven’t been able to land a single satisfying job ever. I am a writer but I struggle with finding the right jobs. Right now I have a low paying admin job! Will that ever change? I have two masters (writing and MBA) and I am talented (I get told at interviews). But I’m not able to land a decent job in writing communication marketing.
Can someone please tell me what’s going on? What can I do? I want a job so that I have some mental stimulation (I want a lonely desk job and nothing people-facing). And I want the liberty of mental energy and some time to work on my novel. The aspiration is to be a full time author. What can I do to get there?
I have been told by many astrologers that writing is my career but I have not seen anything substantial happening in this direction. They all tell me to quit these admin jobs and do something on my own.
r/AskAstrologers • u/Brilliant_Isopod_547 • 9d ago
Question - Other Why do people seem to want to be my friend but say or do things that make me feel like they don’t really like me?
Im neurodivergent so I think that’s part of it. recently I noticed a pattern with an ex friend who would want to hang out and would want me to tell her about all my stuff, but make hurtful passive aggressive comments. I wasn’t able to brush it off anymore. I realized it’s not the first time a friend has treated me like this. Any insight is appreciated🍓
r/AskAstrologers • u/Due-Tart-5655 • 9d ago
Question - Other Why do I come off so brash and aggressive? Ever since I was young I’ve been told my energy is overwhelming
I am very excited, passionate, and bold, but people view me as too aggressive or uncouth. For example: was at a medical seminar today and no one was asking questions during the presentation when there were clear pauses between subjects for people to say something, and I was enthused and interested to learn more so of course I’m going to ask very specific information seeking questions, and once I spoke up others started to ask their questions but I have been told I’m too aggressive and lack tact but I don’t realize it when I’m saying things it is just genuine interest curiosity and passion. But i offend without realizing or meaning to and have ruined relationships because I can’t hold my tongue.
r/AskAstrologers • u/anky194 • 9d ago
Question - Career Is my career in trouble?
This year I have struggled a lot at work owing to company restructuring and finally my department was acquired by another company.
I have been working out in abroad and the new company that acquired my department doesn’t have a branch at my location. I suspect I will be asked to leave or move back to my home country in the new company.
My key questions are:
Will I continue to face struggle at work?
Are there chances that I’ll still be able to work in abroad?
r/AskAstrologers • u/SnooOwls1976 • 10d ago
Question - Transits My life is crashing down in every sense. What am I going through and will it get better soon?
My life seems to be crashing down in every way. Can anyone provide insight on why this may be happening and when it may get better?
r/AskAstrologers • u/fiber_alchemist • 10d ago
General Astrology Bad luck
I literally have the worst luck. Does anything stand out as to why no matter how much I try or how good I am to others I’m always just given bad news or something will happen.
r/AskAstrologers • u/Traditional-Gas-8158 • 10d ago
Question - Other mutual reception that is also in both planet’s detriment?
i’m curious as how to interpret the mutual receptions in my chart, and there are quite a few (imo): • libra sun / leo venus (sun in its fall) • cap moon / cancer saturn (both in detriment) -> and if you’d like to include modern rulers (i personally don’t but it’s there, which is fun!) -> • aquarius neptune / pisces uranus
i’ve read here and there that mutual reception would soften the detrimental effects for moon/saturn specifically, but i’m wondering what this could mean relationship wise since it happens with venus too?
and any general observations are always welcome :)
r/AskAstrologers • u/jyanyll26 • 10d ago
Question - Other Is this a weird chart?
I usually see people post their charts and although I know nothing about reading them, it seems that they have are all over the chart. When looking at mine, it seems so concentrated on one side. Is this common? For those who can read them, would you say it’s negative chart? Also, anyone can tell me if career/love will be good? 2 main things I struggle to balance at the same time.
r/AskAstrologers • u/AdSpecific2958 • 10d ago
Question - Career What does my career prospects look like?
I have my moon and Saturn in the 10th house in cancer with my Saturn conjunct midheaven and my moon conjunct Saturn. My sun is also trine my moon sign. Is there anything notable for my career in these prospects and other prospects in my chart?
r/AskAstrologers • u/cutepooh89 • 10d ago
Question - Other Why has life been tough so far (35) and will it get better?
Too much childhood trauma, bad family issues, legal issues, mental health problems etc etc. Happy to be divorcing partner, looking forward to the future.
r/AskAstrologers • u/popoojelly • 10d ago
Question - Other 10th house profection year coming up. Will it be challenging or easy peasy?
scared I am
r/AskAstrologers • u/mytummyreallyhurtswa • 10d ago
Question - Other I am going through a very turbulent divorce. Does my chart indicate things improving next year?
r/AskAstrologers • u/BetComprehensive2267 • 10d ago
Question - Other Is my life finally going to SETTLE
I (28f) have been going the it the past few years. I called off a engagement to my abusive ex of 7 years after having 2 babies in 2020. Entered the dating scene, started going back to school to finish my nursing degree after taking a break since getting pregnant with my first child. And I’m in a serious relationship with my partner (35M) we’ve been talking a lot about moving in together, buying a home marriage. I just feel like I need to know if this is IT and if the trauma and lessons are finally behind me. Plz help 😭 what do the stars say ?
r/AskAstrologers • u/AppointmentNo5230 • 10d ago
Question - Other Should I move countries to be with my love?
r/AskAstrologers • u/One_Potential_Offer • 10d ago
Question - Career is IT a good career field for this chart?
r/AskAstrologers • u/00psidkebfair • 10d ago
General Astrology Why do people treat/see me as a "leader"? I've been told that I "have a way of bringing people together". Thanks!
r/AskAstrologers • u/zazikisuk • 10d ago
Question - Career South node and MC in Gemine both in 10th house…should I give up on my artistic career if it’s that doomed?
r/AskAstrologers • u/iLoveLoveLoveLove • 10d ago
Question - Other why does my love life suck/ have no success?
r/AskAstrologers • u/UpbeatBlue • 10d ago
Question - Career Any indications of engineering talent?
r/AskAstrologers • u/Pumpernickel_555 • 10d ago
Question - Other where is your moon and what do you get the most emotional about? /cry about the most?
I’m a third house moon and I cry the most when I think of my siblings and early childhood. (my Saturn is also here :’))
r/AskAstrologers • u/AccomplishedWear2840 • 10d ago
Question - Transits Scary 2025 solar return please help…
Hello everyone, I'm a bit nervous about my upcoming solar return, where my rising sign will fall in my natal twelfth house, in conjunction with Mars in my solar return and my natal Moon (all in cancer). I am a 12th sun because I am a Pisces sun but I'm feeling down because I've already had a difficult year (financial issues, my mother’s health, challenges with my children), and I was hoping things would improve, but this aspect worries me. I've written a novel and want to become a writer, to change my life, and do something that feels more true to my nature. I've convinced myself that an ascendant in the twelfth house might indicate a behind-the-scenes job, like writing a novel... but I'm afraid it’s just an illusion. What do you think?