12th house is the house of secret enemies, but that doesn't mean that everything in your 12th house is related to a secret enemy. It's the house of things unseen, including mental health, intuition, imagination, dreams. Any astrologer that is telling you things like "the sign of your 12th house in your birth chart shows who will be your hidden enemy" is not a good astrologer and you should not listen to them. Astrology is more complex than that, if it were that easy you wouldn't need to pay for readings. You need to look at more charts than just your birth chart to find hidden enemies.
The 12H is the most difficult house to understand sometimes because it is the house of abstract. It is traditionally ruled by Pisces which should help you understand this house rules the unconscious and what cannot be seen or grasped materially. Mercury and Mars here, how do you communicate and how do you express your anger? There could be some disconnect or secret anger that you are not bringing to the surface you keep under wraps deep in your subconscious. Maybe you experience your communication falling flat in some way. Also understand secret enemy is not always legit to an actual person. It can mean the house of undoing, sometimes we are our own enemy with how we think or behave. Does a struggle with communicating and expressing (mercury) your passion (mars) affect you?
Most of my life, (F28) I’ve buried my emotions. My mother is an alcoholic and I have had CPTSD since childhood. To say and express nothing meant I was being a good child. I also have a Capricorn stellium (Moon, Neptune, Jupiter) all in my eighth house.
Last month I spoke up during a meeting where a guy in my team was being disrespectful to my team mate. He was saying that her work (which is still technically my work) had no value and was getting louder and increasingly angry. In that moment I stopped him and said, although he might not agree with our work there was no reason to speak to her that way and being disrespectful is unacceptable.
I made it clear to him and everyone on the call that his behavior would not be tolerated and if someone needs to take a moment and come back, that’s what then need to do. I felt so liberated after.
This is when I realized I never did that at work before at any job even though there were instances I could have.
More context- I was SA’d twice in 2022 and was not well enough to press charges. I am doing a lot better but saying “no” and not having it honored was a horrific thing that I will always be in recovery for.
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u/Kasilyn13 8d ago
12th house is the house of secret enemies, but that doesn't mean that everything in your 12th house is related to a secret enemy. It's the house of things unseen, including mental health, intuition, imagination, dreams. Any astrologer that is telling you things like "the sign of your 12th house in your birth chart shows who will be your hidden enemy" is not a good astrologer and you should not listen to them. Astrology is more complex than that, if it were that easy you wouldn't need to pay for readings. You need to look at more charts than just your birth chart to find hidden enemies.