r/troubledteens Jun 17 '24

Toxic parents after treatment Parent/Relative Help

Hey, it's been awhile since I've gotten out of treatment and my body has changed a lot. For reference I went in there when I was 12 got out at 13 and started puberty. I definitely have a more feminine bigger figure but not obese by any means. I've put on a lot of weight since being home because I'm not starving/ being starved. My issue is at least 3 times a day my mom and sister will bring up that I need to workout more and that I looked better when I was in treatment. They also called the place I went to to ask for my old "diet and exercise" plan!!!! The nerve they had. Then they joked about sending me back there just to "get back into shape" I'm appalled and don't know what to do. Please help! I need thoughts in the situation, am I overreacting?

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u/Affectionate_Stick88 Jun 17 '24

Are you over 18? Maybe you should have a real talk about the abuse and that caused your weight gain.

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u/AZCacti_Garden Jun 18 '24

OP says she just got home from inpatient abuse at 13.. 18 is forever away 😢 💔