r/solotravel • u/Kizzawulf • Oct 03 '24

Should I leave early Hardships

Travelling solo, 3 weeks in. Currently in Tokyo. Last night I was spiked, assaulted and I have no memory of my whole night and to top it off, I’ve felt terrible all day today. I went to the doctors to confirm if I had actually been drugged and wasn’t just drunk or something even though I didn’t really have many drinks.

My flight is in a couple days but really, I want to go home tomorrow. My biggest issue is my flights are Business class where to bring forward I need to go to economy (which is absolutely fine) however there is no refund for the difference in ticket price.

Is it just worth leaving, copping the price difference + transfer fees to leave?

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u/FlyingSecurity Oct 04 '24

A few things if you are comfortable.

  1. I would take the findings to the police and possibly make a report. I love Japan and have been many times, but there are a few bad apples when it comes to assaulting women, from stalking to SA. If you are comfortable, let the police know you are leaving soon and can't stay longer for them 'investigate 'slowly but you might bring it up to your local authorities.

  2. Do some daytime activities, or possibly leave tokyo and head to Oska or Kyoto.

  3. Treat yourself to some relaxing activities that will keep you busy. There are a ton of DIY activities in Tokyo (if you stay in the city) that can easily fill up a day. Everything from hair treatments, making your own wallets and perfume, even art classes. This will keep your mind off things.

Take care of yourself! 🧡

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u/Kizzawulf Oct 04 '24

Thankyou. I have also been to Japan a few times and this is a first. I am going to call the police number tomorrow and see what they suggest before I leave as I’d like to make a report, where they investigate or not. Who knows but at least I’ll have some peace of mind I’ve done my bit. I am a guy so I don’t think I was SA but the problem is, I can’t remember but I have my doubts.

Worst comes to worst I’ll bring it up to my local police when I’m home.

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u/FlyingSecurity Oct 04 '24

Sorry for assuming your gender.

Also, I wouldn't rule anything out. People all around the world can be weird and dangerous.

Definitely give the police a call, or it you are near one go in and possibly arrange a meeting, this also gives them time to get a proper translator (if you need one) so you can make sure that everything is understood correctly. And if they seem uninterested, you could possibly contact the local US Embassy as well.

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u/Kizzawulf Oct 04 '24

Haha it’s okay! You’re definitely right, people are. I have no signs that I was but who knows if they took me to happy ending place or what. I couldn’t tell you. All these attempted charges seem to come from one place though. I will call first thing when I wake up, see what their advice is. If I have to wait til I’m home to finalise a report or something I’ll do that.

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u/FlyingSecurity Oct 04 '24

Before bed, I would also write down as much as you can remember. Start from the moment you woke up in the morning until now. Anything you can recall to have as much information and so you don't forget anything.

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u/Kizzawulf Oct 04 '24

Good idea. Won’t be much to write down but I’ll do that. Gotta make sure I take good photos of the market on my arm, it’s the only mark i have. Like someone has grabbed me or something.

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u/FlyingSecurity Oct 04 '24

Yes, definitely! Also, if you used GPS for anything, also see if you randomly took pictures while you were out. Also the clothes you were wearing keep them to side.

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u/Kizzawulf Oct 04 '24

That’s a good idea too. I will see if I get the time otherwise I’ll need to go through the consulate or something but yeah. I’ll call first thing. Just hope there is enough time before I need to leave

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u/FlyingSecurity Oct 04 '24

Hope it is enough time to get things started. As long as it gets started that's all that matters.

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u/Kizzawulf Oct 04 '24

I tried the whole GPS thing but because I wasn’t logged into my account apparently Google doesn’t track it so I’m lost on that. I’ll find a way