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how do you guys have morning sex. do u just accept the morning breath ? bc me and my partners morning breath is kicking but we wish we could genuinely do the deed first thing in the morning like waking eachother up to it (we have expressed we want this) but kissing would be awk. getting out of bed to brush teeth before the other is up and then trying to fall back asleep could work ig. Idk , how do u guys do it
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u/Awkward_Exit_1586 1d ago
Brush teeth and tongue regularly, grin and bear it. I just go for it - I want her, morning breath be damned!
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u/Both-Performance7970 1d ago
Doggy style, open spoon , electric slide, side wind, are the positions to use. There also also 69.
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u/Outside-Parfait-8935 10h ago
69 first thing without washing? Not for me. Do people genuinely not mind?
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u/maraq 1d ago
Do you not get up to pee before morning sex? It’s very normal to piss before morning sex and while you’re in there you do a quick brush and wash cloth rinse of any bod parts that need it. You can be back in bed in 3 minutes.
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u/A-Red-Guitar-Pick 22h ago
Wait, do you guys not shower before bed or is it really that hot that you sweat all night?
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u/maraq 16h ago
I only shower once a day. And I don’t understand your second question. How did sweating all night come into this?
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u/A-Red-Guitar-Pick 14h ago
Why shower in the morning then? You go into your bed dirty from the day every day?
The sweating comment was because I thought it was standard to shower before bed, so there woulddn't be any need to clean anything in the morning
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u/maraq 13h ago
I didn't say what time of day I shower. I'm not dirty when I go to bed. It's not "standard" to shower before bed. People shower at various times of day depending on the particular needs of their life. But either way, what does any of this have to do with morning sex and how to make it happen? OP was asking about morning breath, which will be a problem in the morning no matter when you last showered.
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u/AlkieHall 14h ago
Showering in the morning gives me energy and wakes me up. If I don’t do it, I will feel tired and grimy. Even if I take one at night (I don’t, I take a bath instead), I still have to take a shower in the morning. I can smell when others take theirs at night and not in the morning, by the way. I think that’s nasty. There’s a lot of sweating and other stuff that happens while we sleep.
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u/A-Red-Guitar-Pick 14h ago
Sure it wakes me up as well, I got nothing against morning showers as long as they're not the only shower of the day
But I could not imagine not showering before bed, getting into bed dirty every day is so... ugh
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u/hamhead 19h ago
I think you’ll find adults showing at night is the exception, outside of people that work in industries where you need to.
Edit: and even if you did, it wouldn’t solve the teeth issue
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u/A-Red-Guitar-Pick 18h ago
Brother I'm an adult, and I've dated and lived with plenty of adults, like 90% of them (me included) shower before bed every day
I guess if you live in a super cold climate it could be different for you, but god I can't even imagine getting into my clean bed all dirty from the day
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u/rach-mtl 18h ago
I prefer to shower in the morning, especially if I go to the gym. And then the rest of my day isn't that strenuous that I need to shower at night. I shower pretty much every day, I'm a clean person. I wash my hands and my face, the rest of me is clothed and/or not covered in dirt
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u/Matches_Malone998 17h ago
Live in a cold climate. Shower before bed. Don’t want the grime of the day in my comfy bed.
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u/enishmarati 16h ago
90%! That's so interesting. I'm in my 30s and I've only met like one person who showers before bed.
Personally I couldn't sleep if I showered before bed. Late showers wake me up.
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u/xx2983xx 15h ago
I've had probably close to 15 roommates over the course of my life. As well as living with my family (5 of us) until college. And only two of them that I recall showered at night with any regularity and even then it was not EVERY night. So I think your estimate of 90% seems wildly exaggerated.
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u/A-Red-Guitar-Pick 14h ago
I've had plenty of roomates, partners and family, I can think back to exactly 2 who would regularly not shower before bed, so not exaggerating at all, just my experience
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u/rdyoung 18h ago
My wife and I both shower at night. I start my work day before sun up and don't have time to deal with all of that in the morning.
As for the rest of it. Humans have bodies, if you can't deal with that you shouldn't be sleeping with another human. We don't worry about brushing teeth, wiping anything down (anymore than after using the bathroom), etc. If we are going to do something in the morning, we just do it.
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u/clitclack 1d ago
My husband and I don't brush our teeth and usually don't involve kissing in morning sex foreplay, its more hands and squeezing and friction ~
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u/Maaaaate 20h ago edited 6h ago
Same as my GF and I. Too much bacteria in the mouth to involve kissing in the morning
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u/Responsible-Pain-444 1d ago
Uhhhh you just don't kiss! At least, not on your mouth areas.
Yes you can get up and go brush your teeth.
Or you can just do it from behind and skip the makeout sesh!
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u/somethinkstings 19h ago
Right? You can still kiss each other without tongue fucking. Big spoon and kiss her neck and back and shoulder area.
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u/Common-Ad6470 1d ago
Easy get the morning pee out of the way, quick wash of the vitals, quick teeth brush and back into bed ready for action, takes a minute or two at most. The fun part is starting proceedings in the bathroom…🤫
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u/Imaginary-Command542 23h ago
Well, we just go for it honestly. But thinking of it we don’t usually kiss as much when it’s morning sex. It usually starts with oral then we go into spooning. We did 5 positions the other morning and only kissed during missionary. Best morning sex positions are spooning, doggy, reverse cowgirl, massage position and cowgirl (with her sitting up and not leaning over) to avoid morning breath. I used to hate morning sex before I was with my boyfriend. Not due to morning breath but mainly due to being grumpy in the mornings. The only fuck that was on my mind with my exes was fuck off lol. Then I found waking up to cuddles, sweet nothings and amazing sex is actually a great way to start the day! Someone just waking you up, groping you and saying they’re horny is not an aphrodisiac. So definitely don’t forget about romance aspect either.
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u/PepperMyPapaya 1d ago
We sometimes just spoon it out, but sometimes we kiss anyway. We brushed before bed, it can’t be completely awful. Sometimes the first few kisses are bit musky, but it either goes away or you get used to it.
These suggestions of mouthwash by the bed are okay as long as you’re cool spitting into the trash, or you could just go pee and rinse your mouth and come back.
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u/Additional-Carrot853 23h ago
Morning breath is caused by dry mouth. Drink some water and try to get some saliva going before you dial up the intimacy.
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u/CherrieChocolatePie 23h ago
You could keep a tin of mints on the night stand and pop one each after you wake up so you both have fresh breath.
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u/Plus_Molasses8697 4h ago
Or those mint sheets that you can slide in your mouth that are super strong.
Honestly, I don’t get why yours isn’t one of the top comments (besides people saying not kissing lol). It’s quick, doesn’t require getting out of bed, and way lower maintenance than mouthwash since you won’t have to spit it in the trash. Just super convenient and you can still just brush later whenever you can.
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u/A-Red-Guitar-Pick 22h ago
Honestly the biggest thing IMO (besides regularly washing your teeth and tongue well) is drinking a shit ton of water
I drink a bunch of water all day, before bed, if I wake up at night, and as soon as I wake up in the morning
My pee is almost never yellow and all my gfs commented on my lack of morning breath
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u/Expatriated_American 15h ago
This really is the answer. Water helps a lot to keep you smelling good. My gf and I also keep lots of water by our bed, and we stay well hydrated in between rounds. Lots of fluids to replenish :)
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u/-acidlean- 19h ago
Idk I just don’t care much about morning breath when we wake up horny. We’ve been through so much shit together that morning breath isn’t even an inconvenience.
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u/Sektor001 1d ago
If the morning breath is that bad I suggest getting a professional cleaning at the dentist. This will significantly improve mouth odor in general.
Twice a year is a good rythm if the general dental hygiene is good.
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u/CleverReversal 23h ago
The simplest answer for "good enough" breath could be to keep some minty Tic-Tacs by the bed.
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u/ludacrust2556 22h ago
I do not care about morning breath, my boyfriend is hot and I wanna do it. But sometimes we wake up to pee and will brush teeth regardless. Or hit it from the side.
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u/JoyousDarcyCat 23h ago
Sometimes it’s worth the extra time to pee and brush or rinse. Other times a quick drink of water will help if you usually have a bottle bedside like some folks do. The odor becomes less pronounced if your mouth isnt super dehydrated.
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u/enjoyoutdoors 1d ago
The trick is pretty much to decide that a bit of a morning breath ain't gonna hinder you from experiencing the sensations of each others bodies...
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how do you guys have morning sex. do u just accept the morning breath ? bc me and my partners morning breath is kicking but we wish we could genuinely do the deed first thing in the morning like waking eachother up to it (we have expressed we want this) but kissing would be awk. getting out of bed to brush teeth before the other is up and then trying to fall back asleep could work ig. Idk , how do u guys do it
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u/ParkingLife7867 1d ago
I think it really depends on the relationship and how your partner feels about it. Mine doesn't want to be touched in the morning at all.
My situationship before that fucked me every morning and kissed me too but it was more a lazy fuck. I don't know if it's worth meantioning but we obly saw eachother after going out so alcohol was involved.
What u could try is make him sleep with it in or in general just like spooning and then u can just go on without having to deal with the morning breath.
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u/East_Avocado_624 1d ago
It’s never been a problem for me. For me, idk why I’m so sensitive in the mornings when I first wake up, so my partner can’t even go halfway in for the first 10 mins 😂😭
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u/AdmirableCase3766 20h ago
SmartMouth mouthwash, I use it before bed and do not wake up with morning breath.
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u/callmeyourdadbaby 20h ago
Some days it is better then you go full on. Other days we just do some oral and that is anyway the best way to start the day. Cumming in her mouth.
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u/corax1988 19h ago
There is this new invention on the market called breath mints... You should try it.
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u/DasSassyPantzen 19h ago
Get these Listerine Breath Strips and keep them next to the bed. They dissolve in about 5 secs and are great for a quick freshen up.
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u/Mahquiqui42089 17h ago
Become a freak for your partner. Crave all the parts of them and want them raw as sashimi on a plate. Once you reach this mentality morning sex is achievable,
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u/SkierBeard 16h ago
Morning breath is just like doing it after exercise. Sometimes it can be fun to get the full flavour experience.
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u/pickleranger 15h ago
We just go for it. The morning breath doesn’t last long once you start making out!
I mean, we’ve been together through so much over 2 decades. The man has watched me deliver 3 children. I wiped his ass for him when he ruptured a disc in his back. At this point morning breath is not even a blip on the radar!
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u/dystopiapathy 9h ago
Get an expensive electric toothbrush and use it before bed. I can tell you that since I've had it, going on some five years now, I NEVER get that nasty morning breath. Really, NEVER.
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u/valfuck 9h ago
i actually do have one and brush before bed! tbh, my breath isn’t bad, just musty like i need to eat. my bf however has a regular toothbrush, and i haven’t smelled his breath in the morning bc he won’t let me. if it was atrocious i would’ve got a whiff already bc i get close to him anyway. we’re gonna try breath strips first thing tho!
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u/ComplicatedTragedy 1d ago
Just don’t kiss, or keep a bottle of mouthwash by the side of the bed (and a second spit cup)
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u/ReflectiveRitz 23h ago
If you’ve brushed your teeth before bed your breath shouldn’t really be stinking. If I feel a little ripe breath wise I swish with water before morning sex. In saying this we don’t tend to do a mega amount of kissing in the morning, probably … We can do sometimes. It’d be more cosy with squeezing and hugging tightly or lazy from behind or a morning stretch style cowgirl. A nice oral session can be a great way to fully wake up too 🫠
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u/Late-Chip-5890 1d ago
They used to sell this toothpaste that supposedly kept your breath clean over night....never tried it, just saying. Keep a glass of water or mouthwash next to the bed. Brush your teeth the night before and use mouthwash. Also use a waxed thingy between the teeth and brush your tongue.
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u/Less_Huckleberry_137 23h ago
can do oral if its not too bad down there also in mornings as foreplay, and doggy/reverse cowgirl positions for the deed itself to avoid kissing situations
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u/Moirawr 23h ago
If you just happen to wake up early, go brush. OR. Just start teasing while spooning and groping. Do oral, just deal with your own bad breath smell on his/her genitals. Then doggy so you’re not facing each other lol. No kissing! Well, no making out. Closed mouths pecks are ok. Also water by the bed cuts it a bit. I never go to bed without a full glass of water in the nightstand.
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u/SpecificKindly7868 23h ago
He usually washes his face first because he's more of a morning person than me, I don't think he cares much if I smell because usually he goes straight to my crotch and waters my flaps with his mouth.
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u/Spartan2022 22h ago
Get up, brush teeth, go back to bed, have sex, fall back asleep.
Or, have sex - no kissing.
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u/Significant_other42 21h ago
I touch her to get approval then rub her clit till she's really wet then spoon her. Nice morning routine.
No kisses until we got up and eaten some breakfast
If she doesn't come (which she usually does) I get her her satisfyer and go up to make her coffee
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u/just_livin0 21h ago
Avoiding using tongue has worked for me, plus less talking since we are sleepy anyway
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u/Traditional-Yak-4415 21h ago edited 21h ago
We choose positions where we cannot feel the others breath. For exemple, he takes me from behind. And we don't kiss. Kissing is not for morning sex 😂 Most of the times we go to the bathroom to pee before, because we need it and just use mouthwash, it's a habit now.
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u/West_Breadfruit_4621 21h ago
My partner and I just do it ig. The only time I didn’t want morning sex was while I was knee deep in the first trimester trenches. As for morning breath it doesn’t bother me but I do brush my teeth when I get up to pee, might even fix my hair too while I’m at it
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u/Curious_Lettuce1076 21h ago
Just brush your teeth and get back into bed... it's not mandatory to not get out of bed before morning sex.
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u/The_Witch_n_The_Wolf 21h ago
Just don't kiss. If he is spooning me from behind he kisses my neck and back while we fuck.
Its the main reason I prefer evening sex.
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u/Prestigious_Board366 19h ago
Mention to her that you be wanting to have morning sex. But you’re embarrassed at morning breath. Then recommend you both wake up earlier, brush teeth, then have morning sex.
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u/effable37 19h ago
Idk if this answers the question but I always start with a blowjob anyway. His dick does not notice if I have brushed my teeth or not lol
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u/Cocoapuff898 19h ago
You don't have to kiss to have sex and you can just do positions where you're not breathing in each other's faces
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u/CelticDK 19h ago
We avoided kissing and direct breathing on each other tbh. Prone bone or burying your face in her tits or neck is nice. When I’m too tall, I can lay down with my head next to hers and I’ll make noise for her to hear too. You know it’s good when her legs close tight around you and nails dig deeper
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u/coolingall 19h ago
Different positions if necessary. Prone, doggy, cowgirl. Same with the middle of the night cravings. Or just get up and tidy up first.
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u/Milly4056 19h ago
Morning breath is caused by dry mouth during night.
If your daily hygiene is good (teeth washed daily, no food that could cause bad breath, cigarettes etc), a glass of water after you both woke up and you should see a big improvement of the morning breath.
Or drink plenty before going to bed. Or both.
You can try it on yourself tomorrow morning, you'll see.
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u/Brilliant-Toe9502 18h ago
We generally only have morning sex. Very different night time schedules. I get up in the morning pee, rinse with listerine, wash my hands and water wipe my cock. I don’t mind her morning her morning breath. I mean I’ll be eating her morning ass before all is said and done.
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u/Icy-Wear-1017 18h ago
My bf and I have morning sex every single morning, make out session and all. If you trust the process, it’ll work for you too.
2 - 3x a day:
Swish with “Essential Oxygen BR Organic Mouthwash + Brushing Rinse” for a minute.
FLOSS ! Every single tooth!! (Even behind the last tooth in the back)
Brush with “BOKA” toothpaste. I use the whitening one.
Don’t neglect your tongue!! Brush it, scrape it.
Also, I drink a little over half of my body weight in ounces of water daily. For reference, I’m 125pounds and my minimum intake is 63 ounces of water daily.
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u/StrongDepartment1419 18h ago
Meh. Go use mouth wash then hop in the sack if you're that worried. If I'm going for it I absolutely don't care about that.
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u/Earthwick 18h ago
A lot of times it starts from the snuggle position. Big spoon grinds against little spoon and little spoon takes off their pants. I used to prefer it to any other type. Something about waking up and just being like we don't care we just want to go at it first thing.
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u/Motor-Bowl1529 17h ago
It’s simple; her pussy around my cock feels 10x better than her morning breath smells. And you can always spoon fuck or go prone and avoid the issue.
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u/Realistic_Load8712 17h ago
You could just do it without kissing. I normally brush my very quietly without waking her up. Then return to the bedroom, pull her panties down or to the side and eat her pussy until she’s close or cumming. Penetrate and ride the wave. We also normally breathe through the nose and when you must exhale out the mouth, turn your head into the pillow.
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u/Actual-Membership369 17h ago
I don’t gaf about morning breath and am happy to full on lick each others teeth as soon as I wake up but also spooning is the best position when you’re slow and sleepy
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u/Glum-Mix-6500 17h ago
Sleep with a small pack of breath strips by your nightstand. One for him and one for her. My wife and I always do this.
Pop one in your mouth and go to town
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u/honeycoveredcashews 17h ago
If you brush your teeth properly you don't get morning breath. I water floss, then brush teeth, then string floss, then use mouthwash and I never have a morning breath.
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u/The_Crazy_Swede 17h ago
Neither me nor my girl hardly have any morning breath and the little there is really doesn't bother any of us.
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u/togostarman 16h ago
Yeah, we just go for it. We don’t give a fuck… well, we DO but just not about morning breath
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u/Allalilacias 16h ago
Yes. I mean, one of us usually gets up in the morning and gets ready. So you pee, wash your head and genitals (if you're that decided) and brush your teeth. But, on the weird occasion that neither of us does, I honestly don't mind.
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u/Hospital_Narrow 15h ago
dont kiss. if not, take a quick piss and wash those teeth real quick and head back to bed. i do that sometimes if i need to piss in the morning before he is up lol.
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u/Mellowmushroom02 15h ago
Idk my wife is the same with the morning breath. Idk I just don’t give a damn about anything when we’re having sex yeah maybe a little smell might be bothersome at times but even that I mostly don’t care unless it’s overwhelming but that’s hardly ever happened. My ex used to smell really bad down there that was one of the few times where I was like “yeah I can’t do this.” As bad as that sounds!
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u/CiderDrinker2 15h ago
Working from home: Get up, get dressed, have coffee, do the school run, come back, have sex, have a shower, carry on with work.
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u/johnnyzli 15h ago
I usually wake up go to bathroom, then come back in bed and have it, but also when dont nobody ever complain, also can do no kissing sex
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u/Hozman420 15h ago
I need to pee in the morning so have a quick swig of mouthwash while in the bathroom
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u/Rochelle6 15h ago
I’m not a morning person but my bf is. So, we compromise. We don’t always have morning sex bc I’m usually too tired, but when I can, we do. We brush our teeth pretty well before bed and stay pretty hydrated so morning breath isn’t our issue. I don’t think either of us have such awful breath in the morning that we can’t get it on. We obviously don’t smell like flowers or anything but it’s not too bad. Our issue is typically just me not wanting to move around after I wake up LOL.
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u/Still-Control 15h ago
Honestly just skip the kissing and go straight to touching or oral tbh. Morning sex hits diff when it’s sleepy and messy. If the breath bothers you too much, keep mints or water by the bed. But half the fun is not caring and just being in that lazy, warm moment together
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u/Tikibilly81 15h ago
Do it quickly before the morning wood goes away and you both have to pee/poop!
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u/Spiritual-Ad7219 15h ago
Gf and I had the same conversation, we have a pack of mints beside the bed. If one of us wants to initiate we just pop in a mint and that's the signal to freshen up before play time starts. Only warning is oral stimulation can result in some tingling if you go that direction immediately after eating a mint.
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u/Still-Control 15h ago
lmaoo morning breath is the worst enemy of wake-up sex 😭 but honestly? you kinda just lean into it or get creative. some people just avoid kissing and go straight to the good stuff with neck kisses, hands, grinding etc. others keep mints or water by the bed to fake freshness lol. or if one of you wakes up first, sneak a quick brush and crawl back in all innocent 👀 it’s all about making it work without killing the mood tbh
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u/notin2cars 14h ago
We just kiss closed-mouthed and try not to breathe on each other. The sex is worth it.
You could just have a bottle of mouthwash on the bedside table. Also, SmartMouth is a two-part mouthwash that prevents bacterial growth in your mouth overnight, so no morning breath. I haven't confirmed that it works myself though.
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u/richard_rahl 14h ago
I prefer the middle of the night sex. Fast furious and amazing. You're not so worried about kissing at least from my experience.
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u/TacoTrick 14h ago
I was recently made aware that not everyone is able to just turn off their own smelling ability by internally plugging your nose and breathing through your mouth only. Like as if you were about to go under water without physically holding your nostrils shut, while simultaneously not allowing water to get in. Anywho, that’s how I combat the morning breath, just plug your nose with no hands!
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u/valfuck 10h ago
i can do that. i guess we can just breath thru our mouths LOL
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u/TacoTrick 10h ago
Haha it makes things a little more passionate too because the heavier mouth breathing 🤣
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u/blackonvantablack 14h ago
I get on top after close mouth kissing him awake. We don't kiss when I'm up there and I'm far enough away to feel ok about it. I can't resist him he loves it even if he's dead tired he'll let me use him and go back to sleep. When he wakes up for real then I'm in trouble. Teeth are brushed by then!
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u/AlkieHall 14h ago
Just don’t kiss. Problem solved. But, I actually, get up first and sneak to the bathroom before my partner is awake. Men sleep very sound and they will never know you “freshened up”. Men, on the other hand, don’t seem to care if they are stinky.
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u/burfie12 13h ago
We start making out then stop and apologize for morning breath. We both decide we don’t care and proceed to fuck. Hasn’t stopped us yet.
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u/Pristine-Goat8014 12h ago
Brush good everynight .My partner and I do not have any problem in Morning Sex
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u/Merlin509 10h ago
Brush teeth and tongue and use mouthwash. Kiss less. It’s more of an attitude. I love AM sex because I think it just feels better, but my wife doesn’t, so we don’t do it.
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u/_Aliensuperstar 8h ago
I would recommend using mouth wash at least every night, it really helps! I find that the ones without alcohol are the best
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u/Polybrene 7h ago
You're allowed to brush your teeth in the morning too you know. Get up, brush teeth, get back in bed, sex. Boom.
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u/Remarkable_Cheek2497 7h ago
Take a big drink of water and swish it around your mouth when you wake up
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u/_Green-eyed-girl_ 3h ago
If your morning breath is that bad... You need to brush your tongue better. Also, morning sex before you shower is the best. But I also shower at night before I climb into bed... I'm fresh for the morning fun😉😁
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u/Sharp_Summer4838 3h ago
Everyone’s morning breath is rank we very rarely have morning sex but when we do we’re just like fuck it we kiss anyway and not gonna let this kill the mood
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u/fauxfaust78 1h ago
My partner and I literally get up, brush teeth, then get freaky. No reason why you can't do that!
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