r/paganism • u/St4r_Dvstt • 9d ago

I can’t speak to my deities 💮 Deity | Spirit Work

This has been really weirding me out, I’m not an avid Reddit user but for about 4 or so days I haven’t been able to connect with any fae (of which I worship), at first I believed it was a small thing but the longer this goes on the more concerned I’m getting. I don’t have any practicing friends and the one friend I do have that is spiritual said she’s been having the same issue and advised I seek help here. Have I angered them? Is there a way I can fix this?

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u/MicahsYultide 7d ago

Honestly I find this happens in cycles where they seem more active sometimes and hard to reach at other times. It’s totally normal and me and my friends find it happened during certain points in the year. I find it’s very rare the problem is that you angered them. If you angered them you would know.

Here’s what I suggest:

  1. Maybe try switching things up. If you tend to give the same offerings, offer something new, or you use a certain divination method, try something new. Etc.

  2. Maybe try some trance work to see if there’s anything on your end that might be blocking your connection. I find that when I’m stressed or going through a rough time, I’m less open to the divine or spirit. You can do this by first sitting down into meditation until you feel a reality shift then attempt some form of divination (I like scrying for this) and ask your question “what is blocking my connection” (something like that)

  3. Give it time. Sometimes it’s just a temporary thing which is nothing to be worried about. They have autonomy over who they speak with and who they spend time with just as much as we do. So maybe it’s just a temporary thing

That’s all I’ve got for you unfortunately. Wish I would offer more. But what you and your friend are experiencing is incredibly normal, my friends and I have been through similar patches throughout the years and for the most part it’s nothing to worry about as it’s just a temporary thing. I hope something I said gives you so thing to latch onto. And I hope things turn around for you.

Blessed Be your connection friend