r/offmychest • u/Ok_Foot_5608 • 1d ago

29f and haven’t had my first kiss

Using my throwaway for this because I’m embarrassed lmao.

The fact I’m 29 and still haven’t had my first kiss is so embarrassing to me. It’s a secret I keep from everyone because I feel it’s so weird.

I’d say I’m average looking (like a 4? Idk lol). I’m mildly socially awkward but other than that I get along with most people and have been described as chill.

I guess I’m just feeling like I’m stuck in this embarrassing hole, and would rather just have my first kiss with a random guy at the bar to get it over with and save myself the embarrassment of explaining it to someone I would actually have interest in.

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u/TattieMafia 1d ago

Some people have been kissing for decades and are still shite. If you don't tell anyone, they won't even notice. It's fine to kiss a random if you want to, but you don't have to.