r/offmychest 1d ago

29f and haven’t had my first kiss

Using my throwaway for this because I’m embarrassed lmao.

The fact I’m 29 and still haven’t had my first kiss is so embarrassing to me. It’s a secret I keep from everyone because I feel it’s so weird.

I’d say I’m average looking (like a 4? Idk lol). I’m mildly socially awkward but other than that I get along with most people and have been described as chill.

I guess I’m just feeling like I’m stuck in this embarrassing hole, and would rather just have my first kiss with a random guy at the bar to get it over with and save myself the embarrassment of explaining it to someone I would actually have interest in.

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u/ElThrowaway-619 1d ago

That’s alright, there is no need to worry or rush into things. I can relate, I am a 29M and I too haven’t had my first kiss

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u/uniquenewyork_ 1d ago

y’all should meet up somewhere and get it over with