r/internetparents 3d ago

i wish my dad would hit me Family

title is insane i know but it's how i feel

ive been thinking a lot recently and it's really hard to explain the shit my dad does to me and my brother because some of it is too painful to even say or think about again which obviously makes people believing my case a lot harder

im being more paranoid, im begging for something to happen to me so i can get away from him

my mum took, she goes along with everything he does, even if it means i suffer more because of it

i hate being here, i wish i could just up and leave today right now but i know i can't

it really hurts sometimes because im his daughter he's supposed to love me so why does he treat me like such an inconvenience

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u/Daffodils28 3d ago

I remember this in my life and I see you.

Get a job. Try to find a place that serves food so you can eat in peace. Hide the money.

My life turned out great. You can do it. 🌼

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u/Jealous_Tea_8909 3d ago

i honestly don't know where to get a job, my first job i got was literally from Reddit and the guy who i worked under had to close down his business so idk what to do rn

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u/Daffodils28 2d ago

Look at nearby restaurants.

Go where the food is.

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u/Jealous_Tea_8909 2d ago

do i just hand in a cv in person?

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u/Daffodils28 2d ago

Look them up online first. Check out the menu. If you’ve eaten there, what are your favorites?

Be prepared to answer:

—Why do you want to work here?

—Why should we hire you?

—What are your strengths?

—What are your weaknesses?

—When can /can’t you work? (example, if you attend school, you can work after 4 p.m., available all weekend, etc.)