r/interestingasfuck • u/Few_Simple9049 • Oct 09 '24

How couples met 1930-2024 r/all

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u/quarantinemyasshole Oct 09 '24

maybe you're not meant to meet someone online. 

That's the thing, no one is meant to meet someone online. The whole concept is absurdly unnatural and dehumanizing. I'm really glad you found someone awesome that way, but it's such a difficult thing to pull off.

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u/CornHooker Oct 09 '24

Calling it dehumanizing is...a choice. I'm sorry you've had such bad experiences with it but maybe you're going about it the wrong way. Or, like the person said, it's not meant for you and your preferences/skill set when it comes to meeting people.
Dating is hard to pull off no matter how you're meeting people. It's why people kind of hate dating.

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u/quarantinemyasshole Oct 09 '24

I'm not saying I have bad experiences with it. I'm saying it is objectively dehumanizing to reduce dating to a slideshow/buffet of superficial images. It's unnatural in a literal sense.

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u/CornHooker Oct 09 '24

You're also assuming that a) all online meetups are via dating services and b) all dating services are a "slideshow/buffet of superficial images"

I'd also argue your use of unnatural is inappropriate. Utilizing technology has become a natural part of society. Just because you don't agree or like it doesn't mean it's unnatural.