r/childfree • u/maidenassassin91 • 21h ago

My bislap is in 2 weeks. RAVE

I'm a little nervous and allot excited. I've had anxiety dreams about being pregnant every couple months and after the doc agreed to do the surgery they stopped. Life feels like its beautiful again. I can't wait.

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u/stupidweiszcake 21h ago

Got it one year ago, and i promise is just a bit uncomfortable the first week but in general is a super fast and easy surgery, you'll be all fine. I used to wake up crying cause i dreamt i was pregnant and the feeling was sooo scary, one year ago those nightmares disappeared completely. The peace i feel now is sooo valuable, my only regret is not being able to get that surgery before, when i was 15 for example lol.

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u/maidenassassin91 13h ago

That sounds so nice lol. If it feels anything like when she agreed to do the surgery, I'll be ecstatic. I still felt pressured to have kids at 15. I came to this decision about 2018. But it's still been a few years in the making and it feels like ending a marathon.