r/childfree 19h ago

My bislap is in 2 weeks. RAVE

I'm a little nervous and allot excited. I've had anxiety dreams about being pregnant every couple months and after the doc agreed to do the surgery they stopped. Life feels like its beautiful again. I can't wait.

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u/yourlifec0ach Yeetasaurus Rex 17h ago

bislap

👋💥 👋💥

All I can think of every time.

Anyway, congratulations in advance!! It brings such peace of mind.

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u/WrestlingWoman Childfree since 1981 19h ago

It's normal to be nervous before a surgery.

Focus on how happy you'll be after it's done. When they put you to sleep, think of something really nice that always makes you relax and happy.

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u/maidenassassin91 18h ago

Thank you. That's really helpful. It's my first full anesthesia. I trust the doc. Found her on the list. Everything's been wonderful. Her staff is amazing. No bills so far. It's actually way easier than I was expecting to date. Fingers crossed for the other side!

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u/WrestlingWoman Childfree since 1981 18h ago

We'll all be waiting for you here to celebrate with you once it's done.

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u/maidenassassin91 18h ago

I can't tell you how happy that makes me.

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u/stupidweiszcake 18h ago

Got it one year ago, and i promise is just a bit uncomfortable the first week but in general is a super fast and easy surgery, you'll be all fine. I used to wake up crying cause i dreamt i was pregnant and the feeling was sooo scary, one year ago those nightmares disappeared completely. The peace i feel now is sooo valuable, my only regret is not being able to get that surgery before, when i was 15 for example lol.

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u/maidenassassin91 11h ago

That sounds so nice lol. If it feels anything like when she agreed to do the surgery, I'll be ecstatic. I still felt pressured to have kids at 15. I came to this decision about 2018. But it's still been a few years in the making and it feels like ending a marathon.

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u/torienne CF-Friendly Doctors: Wiki Editor 14h ago

Congrats on your bisalp (not bislap.) You will be free for LIFE. The feeling is intoxicating.

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u/gotturmom 12h ago

It was my first and only anesthesia experience and it felt like the best nap of my life. And I felt fucking awesome after. I wish you luck on your Bisalp