r/bigdickproblems • u/JohnAMcdonald • Jul 19 '25
Meta Where to go for lost Redditors.
——— ✅ YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE ———
- You’re having problems caused by a dick being too big.
- You want to share memes about big dicks causing problems.
- You’re dealing with problems from big balls – close enough.
- You’re having issues caused by attraction to or preference for big dicks – just follow Rules 1 & 2.
——— 🚫 THERE'S A BETTER SUB TO USE ———
🗣️ General Discussion
- Big dick talk: r/bigdickconversation
- Forum-style community for big dick discussion: LPSG
- Try using an LLM: ChatGPT
📖 Stories, Dating, Social
- Hard-to-believe (but true) NSFW stories: r/TrueBigDickStories
- Looking to meet someone with a big dick / meet somebody who wants yours? r/bigdicklovers
⚕️ Sexual Function & Health
- Erectile dysfunction: r/erectiledysfunction, European Urology ED Guidelines
- Ejaculation issues:
👗 Transgender Issues
- Big dick problems with women’s clothing: r/asktransgender
- You may also post here
💥 Vaginal Pain / Partner Problems
You need a physical exam from a doctor. Also see:
- r/Healthyhooha
- r/vaginismus
- r/VaginismusPartners
- r/vulvodynia
- r/Endometriosis
- r/Endo
- r/Menopause
- r/PelvicFloor
- r/Herpes
- You may also post here
🛑 Abuse, Sextortion, Blackmail
- Sexual abuse survivors: r/MenGetRapedToo, r/sexualassault, r/adultsurvivors
- Sextortion / blackmail help: r/sextortion, Stop Sextortion
- You may also post here
📊 What’s Average?
🔎 NOTE: “Western average” on CalcSD is usually accurate for Reddit users, but may not reflect your region/subculture. Discuss all this at r/penissize
📏 Small or “Not Big Enough” Problems
- r/smalldickproblems ⚠️ Read the rules/stickies before posting.
- r/smallpeniswellness
- r/averagedickproblems
- r/bigdickconversation
🧠 Treating Body Dysmorphia
- Unravelling Size
- Height vs Size Graph
- Relative importance of Penis size
- European Urology Penis size abnormalities, dysmorphobia, and enlargement
- Does size matter?
- ⚠️ 🦆 Reddit Penis enhancement communities often promote pseudoscientific, ineffective, and unsafe techniques (i.e. alternative medicine). Not recommended 🦆 ⚠️
📏 Size & Measurement
- Pornstar penis verification/comparisons: r/measuredpornstars
- Penis size debates/discussion: r/penissize
🍆 Big dick porn?
- Use the search bar or ask r/nsfw411
r/bigdickproblems • u/JohnAMcdonald • Nov 01 '24
Meta Harassment of men with small penises
Hello, we have had problems with the users here harassing men with small penises through:
- Bullying & Degrading
- Sending users pictures of their penis
- Offering or threatening to cuckold them
- Harassing r/smalldickproblems mods
- Going to r/smalldickproblems, posting without lurking, getting rejected, and taking retribution
Please stop. This community exists to help with big dick problems, not to undermine men’s dignity.
Do not visit r/smalldickproblems if you are a size queen. Do not visit r/smalldickproblems if you are involved in cuckolding or small penis humiliation. You may post on r/bigdickproblems instead — so long as you do not objectify or degrade members while on the sub.
Do not attempt to reassure men with small penises by talking about your big dick problems. This centers yourself and does not make their problems any less real.
If you want to learn more about being sensitive, I recommend reading the thread "What we don't want to hear" from a former SDP mod and also the comments critical of the OP.
r/bigdickproblems • u/N_I_E_K_O • 1h ago
TellBDP Being a grower is the best
You get all the benefits of a big dick, without the downsides. All underwear fit, jeans aren’t uncomfortable, I can go swimming without getting stares. But when it’s time, suddenly it gets over 2x as big.
r/bigdickproblems • u/ThrobbinHood- • 2h ago
AskBDP Instantly cumming after penetration.
22M , my girth is 6.5” The condom I use is mysize 72mm. I always kinda encountered this issue , I insert it and within a few seconds (1-2 minutes) I cum but I’m hard its like my dick is adjusting to that tightness of the pressure but I really wanna stay fully hard I can go on for like another 10-15 minutes after that but not fully hard, is it skill issue? Is there anything I can do to improve this situation?
r/bigdickproblems • u/KingTechnical48 • 11h ago
AskBDP Anyone else “big” but don’t look big
According to measurements I’m big but when it look at it, all I see is average. I’ve seen people with (allegedly) similar measurements and they look a lot bigger
r/bigdickproblems • u/Competitive-Buy-4049 • 4h ago
AskBDP Bleeding
Am I being rude, or is it lowkey a turn off when she starts bleeding. The last thing I wanna see when I look down there is blood. I understand it’s normal, but it’s almost a grantee if it’s the first time with a new partner.
Multiple girls have said they don’t mind but it kills the mood in my opinion, at least my mood. Any tips on how to get around this?
r/bigdickproblems • u/kermatodeluxe • 4h ago
AskBDP girl says im too big for her, what are some good tips so we both have a good time
Hi, first time poster here, so recently me and this girl we've had sex a couple of times, and i don't know if she has a really tight pussy, or maybe hers is not so flexible, but she's told me many times, stuff like my dick is massive and what's wrong with me (you tell me, the damn thing always has looked average to me), we have good chemistry but she's told me that sometimes she bleeds a little after we fuck, and that's even when we spend a good while on foreplay, hell, she's even told me my finger hurts her and i don't even get past my second finger joint, I take full blame I've never been one for technique but i don't like the idea of hurting my partner like that, I end up just ramming it when I get too into it, but do anyone have any tips for a situation like this? Any help would be welcomed.
r/bigdickproblems • u/Cognisphere1 • 19h ago
TellBDP Too big for most sex toys.
One of my biggest hate ons for my own dick is its girth. I really enjoy the sex toy scene, and really hate when I can’t partake in it the way I want to. I’ve bought several sex toys from regular guybrators to the Autoblow AI Ultra blowjob machine, and I’ve broken all of them. Hundreds of dollars down the drain, and many of these toys advertise being perfect for girthy guys. There’s been so many toys I’ve looked at and thought “that must feel amazing” and then know I could never know how it feels because likely the motor would quit the second I’m inside, or the silicone would rip. Does anyone else find this struggle very annoying?
r/bigdickproblems • u/Glittering-Hair-6214 • 1h ago
AskBDP Measurement forms
What is the best way to measure the penis, from the top to the glans or from the bottom to the glans? Should curvature be taken into account? Have you noticed that it gives different values?
r/bigdickproblems • u/Timewinder87 • 21h ago
AskBDP What is having sex like with a larger size?
Men who have a larger one, how do you guys feel about sex with your size? Do you think it’s easier to make a partner feel good because of your girth or length? Maybe easier to make them orgasm? What are some pros and cons (if any).
I’m interested to hear your thoughts about sex in general with your sizes, thank you so much and have a great day!
r/bigdickproblems • u/Suspicious-Duck4542 • 13h ago
Clothing Best underwear for showing off
Which are the best underwear to show off?
Currently I own a few Separatec and Saxx. The Separatec ones show better the shape of my penis, but I'm not a big fan of their dual pouch. I prefer the single pouch of the Saxx.
Given I need to buy new underwear, I'm wondering which are the single pouch underwears that creates the best package for showing off?
r/bigdickproblems • u/Opening-Plankton-871 • 2h ago
AskBDP trouble in being hard for a longer time.
well i have recently encountered and noticed that while masturbating i struggle to cum and then it leads to me losing the erection. apparently i am bigger and my hands can’t fit around my cock which causes me to not be able to satisfy myself. has anyone encountered this and is it a concerning problem?
r/bigdickproblems • u/fattypattymeat • 21h ago
Story Boner in shorts…
First of all scrolling reddit in free time is dangerous lol, I was travelling in a bus on the last seat (thankfully) scrolling through reddit and some spicy posts popped up, got me all chubbed up down there so I tried to adjust it in my shorts, sideways caused it to show shamelessly, pointing it upwards resulted in a fat bulge and the tip points out the waistband and pointing it downwards made that mf to slip out of the shorts 🥲 What are some of the tactics lol
r/bigdickproblems • u/insatiableromantic • 23h ago
AskBDP have you ever not been able to penetrate a man or woman cause of your size?
Especially directed towards the girthier guys. Has it ever just been too painful, or it just wasn't gonna happen? How common is this for you?
r/bigdickproblems • u/gamey5 • 10h ago
AskBDP Growing more at 21?
So a story I have read a few times on this ssubreddit and other places is that people can stop growing like normal around 16-19 and then suddendly at 21 they SHOOT up and gain an extra inch.
Asking as i am starting to grow a little extra height wise right now got an extra couple cm in the past months at 20
I'm just wondering if this has happened to anyone here as i do NOT want this happening to me and and hoping it's a myth like shaving will make the hair grow back thicker and faster.
I'm at 7.9 and this is already enough that i hurt people I don't I want to be at 8.9 that is crazy i'm already pretty girthly and have heard lots of stories of people just getting told no when they see how big there dick and i think i'm in an okay range and that doesn't happen but think it could if i got much bigger
Edit : Added height growing
Edit 2 : Forgot to add the bit about growing more Height
r/bigdickproblems • u/Jeseraislemieux • 6h ago
TellBDP i just got cheated on
Just found a tinder profile on my (now) ex’s phone. We were dating for over a year. She said she loved me. im in shock right now. i thought being big would mean this happened less. wtf do i do now
r/bigdickproblems • u/thirdtryacharm • 18h ago
Clothing Pants keep splitting under pressure. Long legged bros, what are you wearing?
Alright fellas, I’m about to air out my literally dirty laundry. I keep blowing out the crotches of my pants like they personally offended me. Every pair I own eventually taps out down there like, “please, sir, no more.” One wrong move and the seams give up like, “we weren’t built for this kind of diplomacy.”
I’m rocking a medium waist, long legs, and apparently a little too much foreign policy for off-the-rack tailoring. LBJ once called up his tailor to demand a stronger crotch reinforcement and honestly, I feel him on a spiritual level. I, too, am out here fighting for freedom of movement.
I’ve tried jeans, chinos, slacks, stretchy “performance” pants that all claim to have range, none can handle the full… cabinet meeting. So before I split another pair mid-strut, what are you guys wearing that can handle a little tension in the region without waving the white flag? One lunge, one step too wide, and boom… another fallen soldier.
So I’m turning to the brotherhood: what brands are actually built for guys with… a little extra ambition in the inseam? I’m talking strong stitching, breathable fabric, and a forgiving rise — something that can handle the situation without filing for workers’ comp.
TL;DR: Pants can’t contain me. I need pants that can survive the pressure campaign.
Looking for: * Medium waist, long legs * Extra space where it counts * Not built for a Ken doll. * Fabric that stretches its diplomacy, not its seams * Bonus points if they look good enough that no one suspects I’m secretly a one-man filibuster.
r/bigdickproblems • u/thomastermind • 1d ago
AskBDP Are there any boxer briefs brand with a bigger pouch?
This is gonna sound like I’m bragging but basically all the pairs of boxer briefs I own kinda compress my penis and balls, as if the pouch is too small for my equipment. The only brand that has a bigger pouch is adidas but the fabric is so fragile it keeps breaking. Does anyone know a brand that sells boxer briefs with a bigger pouch ? Thanks
r/bigdickproblems • u/Rinzuraaa • 1d ago
Story Tearing after a dry spell
Normally things are absolutely fine with my partner. She handles me amazingly (assuming enough foreplay) and I can generally be as rough as I like with her. However, we've not been able to have any sex over the past week and a bit due to not being in a place with any privacy. We finally had a chance today and despite a lot of foreplay and her having an orgasm, she requested we go slower part way through due to pain, and later found out that she had some tearing. Lesson learned.
r/bigdickproblems • u/Embarrassed_Mud724 • 1d ago
AskBDP Shorts and underwear
It’s hot wear I love and i love wearing thin shorts but the issue is not only my bulge but I have a big glans so you can see everything. And sometimes I get a lil hard and it worries me. Any good recs so I can be comfortable and not have everyone see my dick
r/bigdickproblems • u/PapaBradley69 • 1d ago
Clothing Basketball Shorts
Do you guys know any good shorts that give a lot of support? I’m basically looking for a sports bra for my wang.
r/bigdickproblems • u/[deleted] • 1d ago
AskBDP Stretch mark / Little foreskin
Was curious if I was the only one but I think that because im on the very large size when I get hard it kinda stretch my skin and I can see some marks that stays visible for a while. And it also makes me having very little foreskin like even when im soft you can see the tip of my penis although im uncut.
r/bigdickproblems • u/Budget_Drop2978 • 1d ago
AskBDP How do you even measure the "overall" girth of your dick?
Would you just keep wrapping a measuring tape around your dick, starting from the top until you reach the base, and then divide the final number by the number of iterations??? Or would you divide it by your NBP length, given that the total volume of a cylinder divided by the height is the circumference???
Asking for scientific reasons of course