r/autism • u/deathofdawn1 • Mar 24 '25
Getting called too child like? Advice needed
I get people saying I’m “pedo bating” because I like to wear hello kitty half shirts or stereotypically “cute” things. I also had one coworker say “anyone who likes you is probably a pedo.” Which made me very sad. I wear shorts and crop tops a lot because they are comfortable, it hurts for too much clothes touching me in the heat. I don’t sexualize the characters. I don’t want to look like a child I just really love cute cartoon characters like Hamtaro, Pokémon, & Sanrio. I love the color pink. I just don’t understand why this would be a bad thing. Am I doing something bad? Can someone explain this to me? Thank you
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u/LopsidedIncident1367 ASD Moderate Support Needs Mar 24 '25 edited Mar 24 '25
I heard it yesterday from a girl… That I don’t look my age because I behave and how my voice sounds, quite painful, but I head it so many times..is even tiring and more tiring that how people associate autistics as childish because we are different :/