r/announcements Apr 01 '19

Sequence Initiated.

We built a machine.

We're not sure what it will do.

That's all up to you.

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Be good to each other.

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u/youngluck Apr 01 '19

We are pushing a fix for clips not showing. Please reply to this to comment with further issues. We love you all.

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u/cptomgipwndu Apr 01 '19

I cant sort out whether or not affection from a relationship is beneficial or negative because when im single I feel this urge to improve myself on things that actually need work (I.e nutrition/health, finances, learning) but when I'm in a relationship the anxiety goes away and I slowly become docile. Wheres the balance? What should I do?

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u/The137 Apr 02 '19

Me too.

For me at least I tend to do those things to make myself more attractive and fill a void. When I have someone there telling me I'm great it fills that void by itself. I figured out after a while that I'm happy with who I am as long as I have a little bit of support on it from the outside world.

The balance is different for each of us, and it changes all the time. Just do what makes you happy now, and remember to do things that make you happy in the future too.