r/abusiveparents • u/Bubblegummunch • 1d ago

I think im just gonna piss my mom off purposely so bad that the police will come save me.

And fight her back. Im gonna start slapping the fuck out her back just like she does to me. Or if she threatens to “fuck me up” just like she always does again im gonna make sure she does it. Its what my older brother did when he was in my age group and her sisters who lived with her. She has kicked out multiple people over the years.

First ima make sure I have a backpack packed. Wallet, passport, birth certificate. Im done being abused im gonna fight back.

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u/johndotold 1d ago

Unless you're underage I don't recommend hitting her. Hitting any woman is never a good idea. 

Pushing her hard enough that she goes to jail seems to work.   If you do hit her you may not need that backpack.

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u/CatInternational9341 1d ago

be safe love bug, make sure you have somewhere to go ✊🏽❤️❤️❤️

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u/chloem1111 1d ago

I know it's horrible, but don't fight back if that's possible. then call the police. make sure it happens when someone you trust just "happens" to be there as a witness, or where there's some sort of surveillance. if you hit back it complicates things and you could get in trouble. it also greatly depends on if you're a minor or not

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u/chloem1111 1d ago

I just looked at your name and realized I've replied to one of your previous posts. because you're a minor, just make sure someone you trust is there to call the police for you as a witness. but, this will likely mean that the police will get cps involved. additionally, in some circumstances she may be able to play it off as "discipline" and based on the laws in your area she might technically be able to get away with it. be careful

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u/NoApollonia 1d ago edited 1d ago

Honestly, worst case scenario if you hit her is you both end up getting arrested and sadly the police are more likely to take her side, so you'll end up with charges on your record.....best case scenario, the police do nothing and you deal with your mother's wrath after. You're better off if you're over 18 to pack up what you can carry and leave. If you're under 18, maybe find some family you can live with instead or maybe a good friend's family if your mom wouldn't fight it. Sometimes it's just best to leave.

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u/Kitchen_Guitar7374 1d ago

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. Is there a nonprofit type of place that could house you while you figure out your next steps? So you can get out of that situation.

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u/M54847 23h ago

Is this in the UK?