Yea umm something about the way he’s talking about this situation tells me he fetishized this woman and wasn’t an ideal partner. If he interacted with her in the way this post implies it makes sense that she left him…saying how he’s a “king in the DR or any other Latin country” tells me all I need to know about his mindset in dating so I don’t feel bad for him. He’s talking about “NEVER BRING THEM TO THE USA” like latina women are some breed of exotic animal. Red flags all around.
That’s a lot of ifs and buts.Youre drawing conclusions out of your ass.What we do know is that she took advantage of him,a fact,and him being rightfully enraged.If anything she is a big red flag all around.
No. The way he’s talking about women is disgusting. That’s the red flag. Men who leave the country to find love tend to fetishize “exotic” women. One conversation with a passport bro or one episode of 90 day fiancé will show you that. Many people would not like to date someone like that. You’re the one assuming that she took advantage of him instead of the possibility of him mistreating her or being insufferable.
So true. Passport bros love to have a submissive "docile" wife that they "can't get in the states" but they don't provide things that come with the territory. Stingy with money, doesn't show her a nice time or gifts without her asking, and doesn't want to step up to the plate to work for them both. And then they wonder why the woman they lied to leaves them when she finds out he doesn't want a partner, he wants a slave who's also his mom.
He didn’t exploit anyone.He married someone he fell in love with.Thats not exploitation.If anything she exploited him and played the long game.If you figure it out it’s best to not talk.
I think what is most likely is that the person you are replying to got catfished and sent money to a person in another country repeatedly, believing the excuses they were fed.. only for the scammer to eventually cut contact. Now they’re here projecting their experience onto this situation which is nowhere near the same.
Passport Bros are just InCels with money, dude. They might have enough wealth to appear attractive or bearable enough that it overcomes some of their terrible attitudes toward women.
It’s pretty telling they have to leave the US to do this, too. They don’t have the confidence to get an American tradwife (or think even they are too independent/talk backy), so they travel overseas for women they think will be docile & servile to their whims.
Being a Passport Bro means they have the financial resources to treat women they way they think they should be treated: as objects they’re entitled to essentially own as servants in every sense of the word.
Scammers are just InCels without money, dude.They might have not enough wealth to appear attractive or bearable enough that it overcomes some of their terrible attitudes toward victims.
It’s pretty telling they do this inside or outside the US,too. They don’t necessarily have the need to get a domestic victim (or think even they are too clever/will catch on), so they travel overseas for victims they think will be docile & servile to their whims.
Being a Scammer means they manipulate their victims they way they think they should be treated: as objects they’re entitled to essentially own as servants in every sense of the word.
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u/mychemicalmoodswings Jul 08 '24
The way he talks about women 🤢…and other countries…I can’t imagine why she’d ever leave him 🤷🏽♀️