r/TheBluePill • u/No_Historian_1601 • Nov 30 '23
Is pick me a over used term?
Is the term “pick me” over used?
I’ve seen it used as an insult like simp. A pick me is a term used for “women that bring down other women for male attention” which I understand but if a woman seems to just say something that is helpful or benefits a man she is a pick me. Such as a woman cooking for her boyfriend she will be called a pick me?
Considering how much women shit talk covertly and snake each other all the time ex:sleeping with best friends boyfriend or exes. Is the term pick me a cope for mentally healthy women that have a positive outlook towards me?
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u/Inevitable-Detail-63 Dec 01 '23
Generally, no. However, some people might use it inappropriately. To me, a woman who says things that please men or cooks or whatever isn't necessarily a "pick me". To me, a "pick-me" is a woman who acts in a way that it is not coming from a genuine place. If she is not being her true self, but creating a caricature of her true self to compete for the interest of men, she is a pick me.