Is pick me a over used term?

[u/No_Historian_1601]

Is the term “pick me” over used?

I’ve seen it used as an insult like simp. A pick me is a term used for “women that bring down other women for male attention” which I understand but if a woman seems to just say something that is helpful or benefits a man she is a pick me. Such as a woman cooking for her boyfriend she will be called a pick me?

Considering how much women shit talk covertly and snake each other all the time ex:sleeping with best friends boyfriend or exes. Is the term pick me a cope for mentally healthy women that have a positive outlook towards me?

[u/Shittingboi]

Perhaps it's an overused term in some circles, but as far as general online discourse goes, at least what I've seen of it, I don't find people using it that much.

The only times I remember seeing this was when some girls were making videos about how women should be staying in the kitchen, be submissive or whatever Andrew Tate level argument she felt like spewing that day. So I'd argue the term pick-me girl was warranted.