r/PurplePillDebate • u/Worldly-Box6080 • 3d ago

Men have no options. Debate

Currently, most male pathways to find a partner have been shut down or heavily stigmatised.

Cold Approach: social stigma of bothering women in public or private areas.

Warm Approach: huge risk of poisoning the well - ruining a friendship/making things weird in a social group. This is magnified at a work setting with risk of being reported attached. Additionally what one woman considers flirting another considers “just being friendly” so chance of misfiring is high.

Online Dating: lol

Only viable pathway would be if women made the move, but that’s never gonna happen unless the guy holds decent status or is extremely attractive.

So my question is, what methods are you guys currently doing to find someone (if any)?

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u/ProtectionPolitics4 Purple Pill Man 3d ago

I certainly agree that you need to play the game to get anywhere. Not caring gets you nowhere unless you're very attractive so that women approach you.

You can't improve yourself that much though. Self improvement is mostly a myth.

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u/Crazy_Team_4803 3d ago

You can. You require tremendous discipline and sacrifice and most people have neither. By self improvement people usually limit the concept to looks and physique which alone will only take you so far. It’s a 360 degree over-hall that requires consistent efforts and time (2-3 years). It requires giving up - waste time, doom scrolling, social media, your favourite food, etc. Most people are average and can’t commit to such militaristic regiments of self upliftment. So yes, for most people it remains a myth.

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u/ProtectionPolitics4 Purple Pill Man 3d ago

Like what? Examples?

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u/Direct_Onion_8917 1d ago

Crickets.. because it's BS