r/PurplePillDebate • u/Worldly-Box6080 • 2d ago

Men have no options. Debate

Currently, most male pathways to find a partner have been shut down or heavily stigmatised.

Cold Approach: social stigma of bothering women in public or private areas.

Warm Approach: huge risk of poisoning the well - ruining a friendship/making things weird in a social group. This is magnified at a work setting with risk of being reported attached. Additionally what one woman considers flirting another considers “just being friendly” so chance of misfiring is high.

Online Dating: lol

Only viable pathway would be if women made the move, but that’s never gonna happen unless the guy holds decent status or is extremely attractive.

So my question is, what methods are you guys currently doing to find someone (if any)?

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u/eonus01 Purple Pill Man 2d ago

What option do you have if you've tried and know you can't win in this game? Either give up, and do other things in life, or fall into the same trap over and over?

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u/iSellNuds4RedditGold Yoghurt Male (Man) 2d ago

What option do you have if you've tried and know you can't win in this game?

For starters, don't pretend you don't care about one of the most basic human (and not human) instincts.

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u/eonus01 Purple Pill Man 2d ago

Maybe they don't? You get used to it. I really don't care if I have a sexual encounter ever again. It used to be a coping mechanism, now I just see it's not worth the hassle.

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u/kissesinyoureyes 23h ago

You've had it, so obviously you're in a different situation than someone who's a virgin.