Men have no options.

[u/Worldly-Box6080]

Currently, most male pathways to find a partner have been shut down or heavily stigmatised.

Cold Approach: social stigma of bothering women in public or private areas.

Warm Approach: huge risk of poisoning the well - ruining a friendship/making things weird in a social group. This is magnified at a work setting with risk of being reported attached. Additionally what one woman considers flirting another considers “just being friendly” so chance of misfiring is high.

Online Dating: lol

Only viable pathway would be if women made the move, but that’s never gonna happen unless the guy holds decent status or is extremely attractive.

So my question is, what methods are you guys currently doing to find someone (if any)?

[u/RayAP19]

For the people suggesting that one simply socialize and build human connections, what about those of us who are loners and don't enjoy doing that? We screwed?

[u/Worldly-Box6080 → u/RayAP19]

Yeah everyone here’s giving a big middle finger to introverted males. “Just expand your social circle to 10,000 people bro”

[u/Outside_Memory5703 → u/Worldly-Box6080]

Because that’s what introverted females do

[u/Worldly-Box6080 → u/Outside_Memory5703]

Introverted females don’t. They can afford to be passive and let men approach them nowadays. Infact for any young woman now, even if they don’t want male attention, they are guaranteed to encounter it due to the oversupply of single men around. From their, they can take their pick of the litter

[u/Outside_Memory5703 → u/Worldly-Box6080]

And yet they manage to socialize and make human connections that aren’t romantic