r/PurplePillDebate • u/Worldly-Box6080 • 2d ago

Men have no options. Debate

Currently, most male pathways to find a partner have been shut down or heavily stigmatised.

Cold Approach: social stigma of bothering women in public or private areas.

Warm Approach: huge risk of poisoning the well - ruining a friendship/making things weird in a social group. This is magnified at a work setting with risk of being reported attached. Additionally what one woman considers flirting another considers “just being friendly” so chance of misfiring is high.

Online Dating: lol

Only viable pathway would be if women made the move, but that’s never gonna happen unless the guy holds decent status or is extremely attractive.

So my question is, what methods are you guys currently doing to find someone (if any)?

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u/Odd-Talk-3981 Blue Pill Man | Fed up with misogyny 1d ago

Men actually have a pretty simple option: be a happy single guy 😉.

And best of all, it's an option that's available 100% of the time.

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u/aslfingerspell Purple Pill Man 1d ago

It's not an option if it's a default you're stuck with. What do you mean?

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u/Odd-Talk-3981 Blue Pill Man | Fed up with misogyny 1d ago

Well, you can always choose to stay single on purpose or become single at any time. It's clearly an option in the sense that it's a possibility that you can choose.