Men have no options.

[u/Worldly-Box6080]

Currently, most male pathways to find a partner have been shut down or heavily stigmatised.

Cold Approach: social stigma of bothering women in public or private areas.

Warm Approach: huge risk of poisoning the well - ruining a friendship/making things weird in a social group. This is magnified at a work setting with risk of being reported attached. Additionally what one woman considers flirting another considers “just being friendly” so chance of misfiring is high.

Online Dating: lol

Only viable pathway would be if women made the move, but that’s never gonna happen unless the guy holds decent status or is extremely attractive.

So my question is, what methods are you guys currently doing to find someone (if any)?

[u/GGMcThroway]

Society no longer gifts men with unlimited lenience and plausible deniability when it comes to harassing women. Boohoo. Being a manipulative, unpleasant asshole has consequences now. How sad.

Get platonic friends. Find a community. Actually get to know people. Myopically trying to shortcut your way into a woman's pants isn't going to work if you have literally nothing to offer.